This is a very serious question and for most of us, the answer is someone else. There's nothing wrong with someone else driving your life bus as long as that person is driving you to your desired destination.
Some are being driven by their parents, their parents must approve of every move they make and it must conform to their expectations. Some are driven by relatives, pastors, neighbors and friend, it doesn't really matter, just make sure you're headed towards the right path.
Sometimes, you might just be escorting them to their own destinations and you'll end up shocked when you realise you haven't done anything for yourself. They only end up using your own resources to build their life and hail you for being generous or nice.
Be careful with your life and who you let into it. Take charge and drive yourself to your own destination and don't forget to ask for advice as you go.
You'll be called terrible names for doing things your way
You'll be called arrogant, heatless and wicked
You'll be called selfish but one thing is sure
You'll get to your destination faster and on your own terms when you wise up and start driving your life bus.
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