Whatever your situation in life may be, God does not discriminate person.
Romans chapter 2 verse 11 says, For there is no respect of persons with God. With God meaning "God the father" in the lord jesus christ also, there is no respect of persons of there is no favouritism. God the father and the son do not discriminate among people. James 2 vers 1 says, My brethren, have not the faith of our lord jesus christ, the lord of glory, with the respect of persons. We must not be practicing respect of persons because all people were created by God, all of us were created by God and in the eyes of God all of us are important that's why, the bible says that it is God's will that all men be saved. 1Timothy 2 verse 4 says, who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.
Now if God wants every man or all men to be saved, it means that God love everyone.
2 Peter 3 verse 9 says, the lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some man count slackness, but is longsuffering to us ward, not wiling that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
God is not willing that any should perish, not even one man. He does not want even one man to perish. But that all should come to repentance. Meaning, He loves all of us. The question do we accept somebody like you[ single mother] ? Who according to you, is a single mom for almost twelve years? I see no reason why this kind of question came out of your mind. Maybe you have experienced some discriminations among people. But it is not common in the church of God. In the true church, we treat each other equally, we care for each other equally
1 corinthians 12 verse 25 says, that there should be no schism in the body, but that the members should have the same care one for another.
Whatever you may be, imagine in the first century church, there is a famous member who was formerly an evil woman, in the person of Mary magdalene, seven demons went out of her when she was baptized. But she was accepted as a member of the church and she played an important role in the propagation of the gospel. She was one of those women who helped support the ministry of lord jesus christ. Luke 8 verse 2 says, And certain women, which had been healed of evil spirits and infrimites, Mary called magdalene, out of whom went seven devils.