Red or Black ???

Hello all I want to introduce myself here . I'm 35 years old mother of 2 kids . My life so far go as for everyone up and down. In this post I would like to have your advice about Red or Black. Every woman always need to look better so imagine my shock wen at 17 my hole hear get white.......... Omg ......... Good part in girl case is that we can paint our hears so I start discover which cooler is best for me. After many different trays I stop on red and start to test all the spectrum of it . Problem with the color of hear is that people start to judge your character based on it. Every one have heard about dumb blonds ... correct ? For several years I understand that the focus is so much on my hear that my partners didn't see the color of my eyes ... but the chance to be hit from car at the street diminished to ... 0% .. With my extreme hear color ... on sunny day .... Low... so 15 years + redhead . Before 2 years discover a problem in my brain, after a surgery and stand implant the staying 3 4 hours in hairdresser salon become impossible so had to go back to the usual ..... black .... Nowadays I am much better, i can continue live my life as usual but I am really missing my red hear . So shut I get it back to red or on my age is to extreme ??