I'm not realistic, I'm no longer as creative as young as I am, a lot of things start my "settle down" because between dreams / idealism does not run in accordance with the existing situation / reality, no wonder many small children who aspire to become a pilot / doctor / president become bank employees. Our friends start to leave and live their lives, some of them getting married, some have a baby, we start to become a family man who initially the center / center of our life is only ourselves and tend to be individualistic, slowly we begin to appreciate the meaning of togetherness and kinship.