Hello everybody, this is my first time every joining something like this. I need help! My son is 15 years old, he's a good student, into football, and a good social life. When the summer first started he was bored, finally 2 weeks ago he found a summer job. I was so proud and happy for him. Then the bomb exploted!
When my husband called me to tell me that he took my son's phone away because of a chore issue. He checked his messages, and come to find out he's smoking marijuana! Cigs! I've never smelled either on him and I trusted him 95%. We have open communication, and I'm a mom that's update to date on everything.
I don't know when? how? but he's been sneeking behind our backs. I just found out a couple of hours ago and I'm still really hurt, mad and dissappointed. He doesn't know that we know yet. I plan to discuss the situation with my husband when I get home from work.
Tommorow morning I plan letting him know that we know and punish him. I was thinking taking his cell phone away for a month, no fbook, no game, an earlier cerphew. Does anyone have any suggestions.
I would really appreciate any advice or suggestions any of you have. Thank you :-(