Hey steemit friends, today on Your View based on the above topic I would like us to share our opinion on this Does having sex on the first date means she's cheap? For me I don't think having sex on the first day means the lady is cheap here's why?
I am going to start by saying sex means different things to different people. To some people, it is just a fun time, a one night stand, a time to just get naked and get down with each other, where to some people, sex means more, sex to them is an expression of their love and feelings for one another.. It comes from a place that births the necessity to share and give rather than take and take...now, to the issue at hand... Does sex on a first date mean she is cheap... Definitely not... You may ask me why...
1. The first reason can be cos of the mutual feelings between the guy and the lady, now prior to this first date, there could have been some level of communication between both parties and those could have given birth to some mutual attraction which could lead to physical demonstration on the first date.
2. One other reason could be that the lady has a psychological problem which we call nymphomania... Now this could also act as a driving force to sleeping on the first date... Take note, this condition is similar to a kleptomaniac, it is an intensive force to do such act... So that condition doesn't mean she is cheap.
Some might say sex is a fling ,
I beg to disagree with you... Now sex is not fling to everyone... Fling is you having a good time with someone sexually without any form of commitment to each other...
Fling can be long term or short term, it even extends beyond the first date especially if both parties feel they are sexually satisfying each other but can't get more than that from each other... So they sleep with each other and look out to have relationship with other people..
This topic is centered on having sex on d first date which could go in two ways: the guy can either end up with u or break up with you... This is why i said depending on the maturity and sincere feelings they both have for each other... Having sex on the first date only further proof their feelings...
We all know that we ladies are often moved by our emotions.. We tend to love deep and probably do some things for love.... We are moved by the sweet words spoken by a guy we like, and then in our minds we are picturing ourselves with that guy..... It happens to most people.... Even very religious people... Sleeping with the guy on d first date often comes as a result of the feelings already stirred up in her, it doesn't make her cheap...
Thanks for reading.. I would also like you all to share your views on this
Does having sex on the first date means she's cheap???
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