Love and money are two different things. While the former might be eternal, the latter could be temporary happiness. According to psychology, money might not be able to buy love but it can increase the chance of love.
Take for example; As a guy, who takes a girl out shopping, buys her everything she wants and takes her everywhere by spending a lot of money on her. Trust me, you would win her love for you till your money last. Once your money finishes or you just pretend you don't have again, then you will know if truly she loves you for who you are or just for your money.
The truth is that money can buy many things you desire, you can travel to your favourite place in the world, but for love, it is impossible except you want to deceive yourself because if you think you can buy love with money, there would be a time you will regret such a step.
There was a clip I watched sometimes back. The lady asked the guy for a reason he loved her. The guy said he has no reason because if there is a reason to love her, one day he would wake up not loving her because the reason is gone.
There shouldn't be a reason to love another person but to love unconditionally. Loving without finding the “why” in such emotion. Love is an emotion and should be done freely and not with something attached to it.
As a lady, when you love a guy because he has money and you think he would spend his money on you. What if he is this stingy guy? What will you do?
Money only brings happiness for a while and it would be as if you love him since there is money. A day would come, there wouldn't be money. Will you still stand by him? Will you still be there to defend him?
If you think money can buy your love, then it means you do not worth the value in you. It means you are cheap and any guy can just walk up to you and lavish you with his money and boom, you surrender yourself to him and once he had his way, that is the end.
No amount of money can buy my love for a guy. Money isn't enough when it comes to loving someone dearly. The relationship isn't all about money but true and genuine love.
A love that can never be bought with anything but your sincerity and loyalty. I don't want your money, but your commitment and honesty to love me for who I am.
There are many girls out there that have sold themselves cheaply to a guy and in the end, they are used for ritual and that is the end. All because you want to follow a rich guy but you don't know their behaviours and attitudes.
There are many people with different personality disorders and overlooking those things because of money could make you regret your action.
This is just like pretending to love a guy because he has money, he spends on you and when the time comes, he brings up his behaviour and starts beating the hell out of you. Instead of leaving such a relationship, you stay because he apologizes by bribing you with money and gift. He will keep taking advantage of you because he knows the end of it is him giving you money and you accept it. That's stupidity if I must say.
Your love shouldn't be bought with money but show your worth that you are of value. You are worth more than the gold.
Find true love and you will enjoy it peacefully. Just like I said, money only increases the chances of love but that shouldn't determine the extent of your love.
The truth is that real men or women won't think of buying your love with their money but showing how much they love you through their actions.
Money cannot buy love because you will be opened to reality when you wouldn't be able to even spend the money when their true character is shown.
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