I want you to know that life is not a function of accident but a function of preparation and everything that has to do with God is a function of principles. So if you want to be involved in what God is involved with you cannot but follow the godly divine principles.
Marriage is not an establishment of man; it is not what men conceptualized, marriage is not what men came up with by just sitting down, it is God‘s initiative. It was God that purposed and designed marriage, so when you are planning to marry you are planning to be involved in
God's plan.