My amazing hive family,I welcome you to another amazing week. This week I will be sharing my thoughts and opinions on love or reality.Firstly I am not a fan of love conquering all, secondly l like facing reality.
I got married on the 17 of May 2025,love was the last thing I considered when picking my husband and honestly love is never enough.I can marry someone I don't because love will grow with time if he treats me well.
But if I marry someone I love and he doesn't treat me well I will end up hating him,that is my kind of person, that is why when picking my life partner love was not the first option.
When we were about to get married we visited some relatives and they kept asking me questions like why do you want to marry him,I never told them because I love him, because honestly that is not why I want to marry him and I keep telling him that.
I can love him and not marry him and I can still not love him and still marry him, when I was thinking of marriage I thought of the future ahead, and my future was meant to be peaceful.
Actually my genotype is AA so whoever I am dating I don't worry about their genotype, two weeks to our wedding we are asked to go for a medical checkup.
On our way to the clinic my fiance, who is now my husband, asked me what if the results come out and our genotype is both AS what will I do,I told him it is not even possible because our genotype is both AA.
He said he knows he is just asking a question,I laughed and I told him no marriage then, he said so I will leave him,I said yes oh without thinking twice self,he said what then happened to our love.
I told him, there is something love can't conquer just like sickle cell.I told him I will not marry because of love and suffer something I would have avoided,I will not be the only one to suffer,our children will suffer,you will suffer.
And when you have suffered so much you will get tired and become frustrated,then begin to hate me for choices we both made. I will watch my children cry in pain, me that don't have a strong heart, I will cry with them, please oh.
I love peace more than anything in the world,in fact I think peace is one thing I love more than money,so anything that looks like it wants my peace I let go of it.
And mostly reality is not something that hits you now, when making any decisions and you forget to check or refuse to check the reality of that decision, wait until it hits you.
Reality will hit you so hard that you will be filled with regards because it is mostly too late to go back on your decision,so before making any decisions in life check the future how it will look, don't ever ignore reality.