Physical relationship is termed as love in most of the situations. It is often termed as 'love making', however, is that love in true sense? If 'sex' would have been love, then, everyone would have been happy in this world.
Why Sex is Not Yet Love?
Loving physically can be lust as well as romancing due to affection, attraction and loneliness. Truly speaking love does not support any of these. Love is unconditionally. We do not need a reason to love! Sex can be one of the needful for child-bearing and other scientific reasons like stress relief. Most of the businessmen find great relief out of their hectic business schedules after having intimate relationship with a woman who can please them. It is a sort-of health remedy!
Love does not need to entertain in pleasures. Love is pure and hence does not need to indulge in the pleasures of the world. Since eternal love is unbiased, it does not even find pleasures in the man-woman relationship. Nor does love hate same gender relationships.
So, basically, love thinks above these worldly aspects of flesh or body. Body needs love making, however, when we are strong in the spirit of God, or in the wisdom of God, physical connections are not much considerable.
So, Is Sex Dirty?
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Who said that? You heard it from elders? Is sex without marriage dirty? Is same sex dirty? If God had to judge us on all this, then He would have never loved us unconditionally. As time goes by and as we grow up in the Grace of God, we learn to keep sex as sex and love as love. Mixing sex with love causes a lot of troubles though.
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So, What to Do? Stop Getting Physical?
Well, it's upto one's need and affection and the focus of life. That's why take decision as per your need, your thinking and then decide things when you know what you are doing. Listening to others is always good, however, no one can take decisions for YOU.
Remember that God loves us all the time without any judgement!