In marriage, there are virtues you should put on which are patience and tolerance. Carry these two virtues with you everwhere you go.
It is one of the secrets to having a successful Marriage and a happy home.
You will learn and be able to know more about your spouse if you have this two essential requirements in you, that is, patience and tolerance.
Learn how to be patient and learn how to tolerate too, it will help you a lot.
It is not everything that your spouse says or does that you should take seriously or react to, because they may nor even know they are doing anything to upset you.
As a Christian, you need to believe in the Holy spirit, develop an intimate relationship with Him and use His leading to build your life and Marriage.
When you know how to ear, listen, obey and work with the Holy Spirit, it makes your Marriage peaceful, even if there are challenges, the Holy Spirit gives you the solution.
He makes your marriage and life fruitful and productive.
He strengthens the relationship between you and your spouse by giving you ideas on what to do and what not to do.
When you work with the Holy Spirit , He will lead you and teach you how to function in your Marriage.
Do not be moved by what people say to you instead, be only moved by what the Holy Spirit says and reveals to me.
Learn how to ear, listen and yield to the Holy Spirit. He will help you in your life and Marriage.
God bless you