Hello Steemit,
I heard shocking news that my friend’s husband died in a car accident yesterday.
There's no point in discussing exactly who's guilty and whether this accident could have been avoided, it would not bring back the loving husband and a father. Such accidents happen every day. And this can happen to any of us.
It made me think again how unpredictable life could be. One moment all your life can collapse. Nobody knows, wants nor should to prepare for this.
Try to rejoice at small things and live in the moments that are going on right now. Take the time to value and recognize people around you and appreciate those who make a difference in your lives, who can make you smile, who inspires you.
Life is too short to waste your time on people who don’t respect, appreciate, and value you.
Do not forget to tell and show your dearest that you care and love them. Perhaps sometimes the words alone are not enough.
Do not pretend that you love. Do not hurt each other deliberately. Life is unpredictable and short. Are all these fights and nasty words still worth it, if you will never have a chance to ask for forgiveness?
When you are sending your loved one to work in the morning, nobody will ever know, whether this “Have a nice day”- kiss was the last one, ever.
I know that it's wrong to think and feel the fear that a loved one will disappear in your life one day, but you can give the maximum that the time you have is a quality time.
Love and take of each other.
Thank you for reading.