Take it easy! This is all about that! There are ONLY 4 rules I follow in my life in order to live a happy and wonderful life full of joy!
My first rule is to do only things you want and don’t do the things you don’t want. I already hear that voice in your head- “But I need to earn money for living, how come I can give up on my job even if I don’t like it?!”. My answer to that would be that yes, if you hate your job, quit it! And start to do the thing you adore! Even if you adore to clean up your room- start with cleaning job and if you are really into this, wait for some time and you will already run a profitable cleaning business. Trust me, people feel, when you are doing “your” thing and will support you! Of course, if you are now going at school and hate it – here my rule is not working, education is obligatory by the law and you cannot make anything against this!
The second rule I follow is to tell what you do not like straight away, don’t keep your negativity inside! Why to do this? Well, first of all, we all have the right to share our view and feelings and there will not be more convenient time to share it than right now and right here, when you have them! People can agree or disagree, but definitely will think twice next time in the similar situation.
Don’t answer on what has not been asked from you. Oh, I just in love with this rule! It is so hard to do in the beginning, but then you will see all the beauty! There are so many unpleasant situations appear just because we tell more than was asked! If someone asks you “How was your day?” – You just say was it good or bad. If the one asking want to know more, they will ask, don’t worry! But don’t get yourself into troubles by sharing everything you have on your mind! Especially this is applicable to the job and conversations with colleagues.
My last point is when being in a conflict (yes, this you cannot avoid no matter which rules you follow!) share only what are YOUR feelings, what is YOUR opinion. Never compare your family/friendship to others, never compare the other side to other people, never comment on what has been done wrong. Just say how you felt, that this situation made you feel bad. That’s it! If the other person is ok with making you feel sad by his/her actions, then do you really need to continue your relationship? If they really care, this will not happen twice!
I hope that you liked my post and got some new interesting information! If you will decide to follow these simply rules, I will be more than happy to hear your story!
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