Hello everyone! We listen about proper education from our childhood. But there is a question that is it really need to beat our kids or not when they can't listen our order or advise? Childhood is the best period of life. Student life is the second best period. After student life we start to face the harsh reality of life. So if a man can't grow up with the proper education he will never adjust with corporate life.
A man have to learn manners of talking, walking, eating, reading, buying or selling etc. In every sphere of life we have to learn various types of manners which make us smart and successful. We see that students sometimes misbehave with classmates or teachers. Sometimes it would be reached in a dangerous situation.
I saw in my college two boys quarreled with each other. When they started to fightng on that time a lady senior lecturer came to the class. She saw that and tried to stop them. But they didn’t stop rather they continued quarreling. This hit her mind and she left them with a shame. After that she never talk with us in a jolly mood. The boys who were fighting in front of the teacher despite being forbidden they must not get the lesson of manner. At lest when the teacher tried to stop them they could stop.
I think if our child is not disciplined they will become aggressive and never care anyone for doing any illigal activities. So every family should monitor their child with whom they are mixing and what they are learning from others. If find any abnormality we must discipline our kids. And I think sometimes they should be beaten to control their tendency of doing irrelevant work but not humiliate them. We should try to make them understand first, if they do wrong things again we can give them severel times chance for correction but if that doesn't work, then we will punish them.
Now there is another question do we punish our kids if they dont study properly? On this point I have some diffrent opinions. First we have to find out why he is not interested to study? Then we should try to solve that. If that is not possible we should try to make understand him for adjusting with system. In example if the problem is the teacher of his school I can't change the teacher. Rather I can discuss with that teacher to look after my kid and don’t be too angry or show a fearful face always. A good teacher should be friendly with his students as the students will never feel any hesitation to ask any question from their syllabus.
But it is a fact that almost 99% aggressive teachers never change their attitude. But all teachers of a school is not the same. Adjusting with all situation is also an important learning for a student. If a student can't study properly he should be beaten a little bit otherwise he will never study properly. It is not humiliating , it is for the betterment of their future. Not disciplining a child is not an expression of love.