If you've got somebody's aspects in your experience that you don't like, there's only one reason they're there. You keep evoking them with your attention to them. Without knowing about Law of Attraction, you have β through your old habit of observation β achieved vibrational harmony with the parts of them that you do not like, and you keep summoning those parts from them by your constant vibrational offering of them.
---Abraham
Abraham is a non-physical collective consciousness which speaks through a woman called Esther Hicks
http://www.abraham-hicks.com
Sabrina & I (with a young Esteban) in Samoens, France 2015
I am 100% guilty of focusing far too much on the things I don't like about Sabrina and reading these words today I see with clarity now that every time I get annoyed because she is doing a thing I don't like.... it is me creating this. And I simply need to change my focus of attention. Rather than responding to it by telling her she is doing that thing I don't like... which only makes things worse.
Thank you Abraham for reminding me of this important truth.