<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2026 07:29:43 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/@sevenskies/rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[The mother's look]]></title><description><![CDATA[Parenting is an art A demanding one because it is the grail of happiness. If we get it right in early childhood we can expect happier adults with more health and emotional wellbeing. Unfortunately, the]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/mother/@sevenskies/the-mother-s-look</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/mother/@sevenskies/the-mother-s-look</guid><category><![CDATA[mother]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[sevenskies]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 29 Aug 2019 13:00:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/qjrE4yyfw5pEPvDbJDzhdNXM7mjt1tbr2kM3X28F6SraZf7jd3UvFkUW7GYj6XTwcDNhSuf9AGoFuVnnn9CXiU8NvM5vaUnTNG7qpNYnHenWCYovvf5vgZJe?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Fully functioning person]]></title><description><![CDATA[As a mother I’ve always wanted to teach my children to live with the unknown of life. I wanted them to be unafraid to live, to feel at ease with the unexpected because life is unpredictable. In other words,]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@sevenskies/fully-functioning-person</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@sevenskies/fully-functioning-person</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[sevenskies]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 07 May 2019 09:12:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/6VvuHGsoU2QBt9MXeXNdDuyd4Bmd63j7zJymDTWgdcJjo1Nh4vsYns12mjfNCFfYFpnAfCPxBAyqwMesKkMhZmN4De19bN89LYNbCfUmEbEAnqxLEsJi28uRk5Sw8r?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Power of Distress]]></title><description><![CDATA[When I was young I used to think that therapy deals largely with those who are distressed and tries to help them feel relieved and happy. 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When people face death, they usually tend to feel sorry for the words they]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@sevenskies/relationships-what-are-you-looking-for</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@sevenskies/relationships-what-are-you-looking-for</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[sevenskies]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2019 12:09:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/D5zH9SyxCKd9GJ4T6rkBdeqZw1coQAaQyCUzUF4FozBvW8dYmJgMpge6Gy4DGq45kThcbKMzCH9o5XGys3AkoDD1BntAj58ivuS7zbrQmXob4fMKDuYWdrG8KEcuRmyb6uPPcJ?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[The present moment]]></title><description><![CDATA[Whatever happens in the present moment is eternal. It’s the eternal sense of Now. We live in a present continuous tense, in a rhythm of pure presence in which time dissolves. 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That seems idiotically tautological but that’s how simple life rules are.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/life/@sevenskies/the-lever-its-never-the-load-that-breaks-you-down-it-is-the-way-you-carry-it</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/life/@sevenskies/the-lever-its-never-the-load-that-breaks-you-down-it-is-the-way-you-carry-it</guid><category><![CDATA[life]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[sevenskies]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2018 08:59:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Forms of Comparison]]></title><description><![CDATA[There are three forms of comparison: Positive - (e.g clean) Comparative- (cleaner) Superlative - (the cleanest) When I was younger, I aimed for superlative degree and always failed, or maybe, on a second]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/comparison/@sevenskies/forms-of-comparison</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/comparison/@sevenskies/forms-of-comparison</guid><category><![CDATA[comparison]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[sevenskies]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2018 12:42:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/HNWT6DgoBc14riaEeLCzGYopkqYBKxpGKqfNWfgr368M9VC4jiazuAz8YtToWfPB1gPAzmyEqhXtkTCT6ugktCNseKBb4t3b5fgx2ropodnokvAhLTSNgzyfv3p?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Empathy - Basic Skills to Facilitate Open Communication]]></title><description><![CDATA[Empathy IS active listening. 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