Life and success
As human beings, we seek the success of life in the midst of various ups and downs of life - I am no exception. Many times I think - what is the success? Today I would like to briefly share my personal thoughts on success. Success is a relative term.
Transparency,
Affordability,
Qualifications,
Competition,
Surroundings,
Social position.
If we are going to define success, then it can be said that success is to be able to perform the task by setting goals, considering the environmental conditions according to the right plan.
There is a difference between success and failure. Success can be of two kinds. One is qualitative, the other is quantitative. The two types are not always caught simultaneously. Then life is partial. To be successful in life, you must have the right idea about your strengths and limitations. Sadness, grief, anger, pain, these will last forever. Because it is very difficult to get success without learning sadness. Every happiness is associated with sorrow and happiness with sorrow. Only by realizing this sorrow can we really find the right path to success.
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The social system of our country is a mixture of semi-feudal, semi-capitalist, and a percentage of imperialism. Reaching the goal of this social context is the key to success.
In order to be successful in life, we have to go through five stages.
Target,
Plan,
Strategy,
Labor,
Receipt cum success.
Man can reach the door of his achievement or success only if he sets a goal and works according to the plan and tactfully through his own talent and labor. And in most cases, both men and women have to contribute equally to the success. Because life is going on in harmony between men and women. Success requires both men and women.
However, it is not the success of human beings in all endeavors. How much success there will be in any work depends on the elements present in the work. The elements are self-dedication, dedication, sincerity, perseverance, time requirement, concentration, meditation, surroundings, knowledge, labor, linearity. When people fail to achieve success again, they become immersed in the sea of unrest and create unrest by being jealous, useless, perverse, delusional, apathetic, indifferent, and burdened for others. Success in life means success in action. In my view, there are seven pillars of success.
Reform-free thinking,
A fixed vision of goal and purpose,
Keep busy
Dedication
Complete and timely completion of all actions,
Take action with pleasure,
Keep confident
We are all committed to reform. The more self-sacrificing he is in the pursuit of reform in the course of his life, the more he is capable of success. Therefore, success depends on the achievement and satisfaction of the individual. Life is fleeting. Even in this short life, people want to do something by which they want to be remembered and remembered forever on earth. However, the great scientist-philosopher said that the key to success is labor. It is the result of many years of hard work and uninterrupted thought that I have succeeded." "If there's one thing I've done for the common man, it's been through our many years of patient pursuit," said Dr. Bentley. Everyone called Dalton a genius. He would deny that I had done anything but work.
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So we can say success is the sum of hard work, observation, tolerance, empathy, etc.
Every human being has inherent or sleeping energy. There are many of us who are indifferent to this.
- Gaining experience in talent development
There are many talents in our society who are lost due to lack of proper environment and cooperation.
We are not even aware of who we are. Have we ever considered gaining experience in developing talent? Ever wanted to know what is the key to success or earning money?
It is often seen that the talent in a person is subconscious about his own talent.
One solution is to learn about the successes of successful people, to come in contact with them, to gain experience through their interviews and to gain peace of mind, and to inspire one's own mind.
- Self-realization and introspection
The hidden power of the heart must be harnessed to achieve a specific goal. In this case, in order to know and understand oneself, one has to review one's personality, evaluate oneself knowing one's own faults and qualities.
I need to have a clear idea of what I was, what the work I am doing now is right for me, and what the outcome might be in the days ahead.
I couldn’t, others might make it frustrating. Those who wish to be like others are miserable.
We have to remember that it is foolish to want to be what I am not. Awareness of this success lies in harnessing one's inner strength.
- Stay free from negative influences
In the course of life, one should not be allowed to have any effect on the mind which can lead one astray. We need to find a way to be like ourselves with patience, sacrifice, and creativity.
We have to rise above the imposed opinions or criticisms and move on to the battle of life. The competition of our life is just a fight with ourselves. This fight is a fight to win yourself over.
- Determined attitude
In order to achieve success, you have to set the goal of your life and use your inner strength to move forward in search of the right path.
The desired success awaits those who want to reach their dream life from the present life. In this case, the effect of Garimsi cannot be allowed to enter the mind.
Achieving goals requires an unwavering attitude, non-stop work, and hard determination. Those who have been able to do this have been able to overcome many obstacles and reach the destination of success.
- Deleting unfortunate events or failures
When you know yourself, you can understand, you can recognize yourself, above all you can live your life, then all the unfortunate events or failures of the past will be erased from the mind. New possibilities will come to the door of your mind.
The old events will disappear from the mind as we move forward on the path of further improvement and prosperity in the ever-new work experience.
- Confidence and trust in work
You have to remember, you can't go without a hull easily. This is not something that can be done well in the beginning. A deep love for work and a good relationship with those involved is essential.
Start small if necessary. If you take a look, you will understand that there are many people around you who have achieved success by having faith and trust in work.
- Overcoming obstacles in the mind
Are you optimistic? If you can make your mind optimistic, the greatest asset of your life will be in your hands forever.
We need to keep in mind that obstacles are a barrier to the mind. To overcome this, you need to think deeply about how you were, how you are, what you want to be, what your dreams are.
This will remove the hopelessness from the mind. The mind will be filled with success, you will be successful. Remember you were never weak.
- The right idea towards work
At first, we are a little scared to do any work. What will happen, what will happen, how to move, etc. All these issues become obstacles to reaching the goal. In this case, you have to fix your plan earlier.
Once you become convinced of what you want to do, what you need, why you need it, and above all, how to proceed, your goal will emerge.
The mind will be strengthened and you will slowly move towards victory.
- Proceed to a small range
There are some people in society who have achieved success even though they do not have enough education, talent, or resources.
But the main reason for how- was the dream of success, awareness, and unwavering goal. It is very difficult to find a person who has no money.
You have to start small on your own, but you want to keep the dream big. Many conscious and optimistic people have grown up consciously, voluntarily, through the proper use of their own limited resources. Today they are able to earn millions of rupees. Read more - 15 by APJ Abdul Kalam
Life - to win, to lose
Everyone wants to see success. Everyone dreams of winning life. There is a huge list of sacrifices and sacrifices behind it. They make the color of success more golden. The addiction to success is exacerbated. But in reaching the highest peak, many people forget the history of their foundation. The story of survival survives. Yash betrays the people close to him by climbing the hill of Atishya's pile. Forget the memories of being their stuff in bad times. They just keep looking forward. Everything else becomes trivial to them. In the intoxication of success, running like a mad horse, when it hits the mountain called old age, Then you see how empty the clock is around. The depressing world is suffocated and the environment is overwhelmed by the piles of property waiting for the medicine called love and empathy. But no one comes. No one looks back. Success then becomes the biggest failure. Because success without happiness and peace is like a body without mind. There is no one to share the joy of success. The song of success and failure is played all around.
Today, when he took to the stage to pick the number four golden boot, it was not his real victory. He won when the proud smile of a childless wife fell on him. He won when his first son hugged and caressed his father. He won when millions of fans around the world shed tears to see this one moment. Laughter came with success. Crying brought success. And with success came peace. Not to lose anyone. The peace of winning to yourself.
A win or a loss in life shouldn’t define who you are
That's the way to become successful. This is how real success comes when your success creates a priceless smile on the face of not only you but everyone involved. The price of which will not be able to document any property, will not be understood by any selfish greedy instruments. Those who understand have an object called the mind, who know how to love.
And the day they will be more saddened at your failure than happy at your success, the day you will be truly successful. Not to them, but to yourself.
Because someone said - “There are more important things in life than winning or losing a game. ”
"I lost myself": - top ways to get yourself back
I have lost myself, this word is often heard in the mouths of different people. Losing yourself means losing your purpose. Many times it seems that what we are doing is really meaningless. I think, what is the benefit of all this?
It's usually after a disappointment in hope, or a failure to do something. Or sometimes it seems so. This loss of self is actually an expression of frustration and despair.
But do people ever really lose themselves? - In fact, every human life has a purpose. Every human being has the ability to do something for himself and others. But sometimes due to lack of proper knowledge or adverse circumstances, people feel that they have no purpose in life, they feel that they have lost themselves. Many cannot decide on their own motives even after thinking.
Honestly, even the most successful people in the world have felt this way at least once in their lives. There is no human being in the world who can be 100% positive at all times. You can't find a person who is happy 100% of the time. Frustration and failure come into everyone's life.
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But those who can truly do something, those who live meaningful lives - they can find themselves again after losing themselves. People will make mistakes, get lost - that's normal. But those who continue to search for the lost path, those who have lost themselves and are determined to find themselves again - can fall again and again and rise again. At the end of the day, they are victorious in life. And those who once lose themselves and do not try to get back, do not try to find a new purpose in life, they are lost for life.
You certainly don't want to be one of them. And here are 5 tips to help you get back on track:
01. Write down the possibilities of your life
Almost all of the world's most successful people and self-development coaches place great importance on writing about themselves.
When you sit with a pen and paper in your hand and think, that thought is much more organized than ordinary thought. When people sit down to think about the purpose of writing - that thought becomes much clearer. In the language of science, it is called "psycho-neuro-motor-activity".
The ideal time to think about yourself is when you feel frustrated, or think, "I've lost myself."
Sit down with a paper pen, then write on one side - why are you frustrated. Write in point form. What makes you feel like you've lost yourself?
Failed to do any work?
Did someone close use it unexpectedly?
Didn't get the hard work you expected?
Or something else?
Because whatever it is, write it with time in mind. Maybe for the first time after writing, you will understand - exactly what makes you feel like this. Many times we can't figure out the right reason to feel bad inside. But if you think about it, most of the time the real reason can be found.
Then on the other side list your qualities and possibilities. No matter how small the qualification, no matter how small the quality - write it all down. Then think about what you can achieve with these.
When you think about it over time, you will come across many qualities or possibilities - which you may not have thought of before. If a person understands his own qualities and possibilities in the right way, then the door of many new achievements opens before his eyes. Many have thus found the right and most effective goal in life.
Gary Weinerchuck, one of the most successful entrepreneurs and public speakers in the world today, said in an interview,
"If you don't play baseball well, and like to eat all day - there's nothing to be ashamed of. You don't have to be like everyone else. You can be as good a player as anyone else in high school - you may be one of the biggest chefs or food merchants. "
In fact, people often lose themselves in socializing, or in trying to be like others. The purpose of others becomes his own purpose. There is no such thing as a cricket game or a BCS trend. Every human being has his own merits. If Rabindranath had become frustrated with not being able to concentrate on his studies, he would not have been able to develop his own writing skills instead of reading other people's writings. Who remembers those who used to call Thomas Alva Edison the 'incompetent' or Albert Einstein the 'ass'?
These people have found their true potential without giving up under any circumstances - and have made the development of that potential the purpose of their lives.
If a man can find his true potential and potential in a cold head - he will never lose himself. And if you think carefully, people will find their own possibilities.
02. Life is one - remember this all the time
The man comes to earth only once. Being born and surviving is the greatest opportunity a person can have in life. Once time and life are lost, nothing can be regained.
If you can understand this well - the tendency to lose yourself will be greatly reduced. No matter what happens in life - if you stop - it's your fault.
So try to do something all the time instead of sitting idle. Or imagine the last moment of your life, and try to understand from that position, what do you want to say goodbye to? - What kind of person would you be happiest if others remembered you after death?
Maybe one day you will not get the answer to this question. So until you find it, try to find the answer. And once you find the answer to this question, don't stop. Use every moment of the day to become that person.
If you can do it - never lose yourself again.
03. Don't make a person the purpose of your life
Just because a person hurts, or despairs, makes his life meaningless - he is actually humiliating himself.
One man's life was not created just for another man. Every human being has the ability to make life beautiful for himself and the people around him. It is possible for one person to change the history of the whole world even if he wants to. If anyone with such qualifications belittles himself just for another human being, he is disrespecting one of the best gifts of the Creator.
Many people have contributed to every stage of a person's life from birth to adulthood. There are expectations as well.
Think about it, your parents, siblings, teachers, friends, well-wishers - don't you all have responsibilities?
Don't you have a responsibility to the Creator who sent you to earth? - Isn't it irresponsible for a man to lose himself, no matter who he is?
Losing yourself because of another person is actually an excuse to get over it easily. Strong-minded people never look for excuses. Instead of making excuses, they work to strengthen themselves. Don't worry about things that don't work. Instead, they start in a new way. Instead of trying to recover, he wallows in his sadness and thus, experiences more failure.
If you look at your life in detail and realize the fact that with your qualifications you can make a positive contribution to the lives of many people instead of just one - and at the same time work with a sense of responsibility - then you are not losing yourself.
04. Motivate yourself
Lost myself - it's just a negative thought. This is the way to become truly positive.
If you can stay positive all the time - then depression and self-loathing will not affect you for long. When the same information goes to the human brain over and over again, new neural pathways or connections are made - and when any information stops flowing, the neural pathways become weak.
One more thing, thoughts cannot be stopped - one thought has to be covered with another thought. How?
This will always inspire you to work and move forward.
Also, always talk about yourself in your mind. Think about the good things in your life and thank God for them. Life is good and bad at the same time - what we focus on - is what makes it bigger, affects reality.
So, listen to good things all the time and tell yourself. Also, try to spend time with positive and successful people. Try to stay away from negative and frustrated people.
If you go with 5 people, then at least 3 people should be optimistic people. Optimistic people find something good in all situations. Spending more time with such people will have an effect on you. You too will become optimistic and positive.
Optimistic people never lose themselves for long.