Showing anger and losing control to anger can't be a sign of a strong personality. There are many situations came to our life when we lose our control and burst out with anger and that's the sign of our weakness. Why showing weakness to others? Its true that there are many situations force us to show our beast in public. We spoil image but teach lesson to some. We try to teach lesson whoever try to mess with us so it become hard to keep silent or to be reticent.
Many of my previous article I've discussed on benefits of keeping silence. When we try to avoid violence better we keep silence. Many people may thinks that silence is our weakness but when they'll realize that silence is not weakness even strength, it could be too late. Most of the disasters come to our life by talking too much. Believe it or not, when we talk too much, we represent a cheap personality and when people talk too much they talk unnecessary most of the time. Other people judge them as talkative or some other abusive word.
Recently I met a girl who seems reticent. Her other roommates talk much and when they talk the girl found listening carefully and remain silent. Many of us is not a good listener and always try to grab attention by talking too much. For example, our cook in the hostel talk too much, unnecessary and sometimes she hurts others by her rude words, she is not an educated person so expecting wise acts from her is really very silly. Its hard for her to control her tongue.
To show off that I'm Knowledgeable doesn’t required to talk too much. Most of the legend from history was reticent and their lifestyle can be a role model for today's generation. When you are knowledgeable, your less talking will also represent it. Wise people doesn’t prefer talk too much because they invest their time on thinking and imagine to discover something innovative.
Actually to be honest I'm a kind of talkative person and when I realize it, it seems already very late but I've learned the importance of remain silence that help me to avoid probable troubles may knock my door. For me its really hard to be reticent but thankfully it not impossible. So would love to practice it as much I can. We just need to know where we need to be stop. Talk as much it necessary, unnecessary talking sounds really very nonsense and we should have sense of talking.
Do you know that our heaven or hell of after life will be depend on our use of tongue. Tongue may invite troubles and sometimes we regret for talking too much. Our tongue is soft by shape but it has ability to break hearts and change life. Holding tongue would be not that easy but a good practice can really help us. We surely don't want to represent us as a talkative person. Hope I'll be able to be reticent someday because I want no trouble in life and want heaven for after life.
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