“Take your life in your own hands, and what happens A TERRIBLE THING: NO ONE TO BLAME” Quoted via Erica jong.
Man has always found an escape from his responsibilities, either by blaming other people for his emotions or God for the situations he can’t change. Although man is the only one who is responsible for his success or failure, taking the control is one of the most effective habit in life one can learn to achieve the goals one ought to.
If all you do is sit back and blame other people for your failures then sorry, you cannot move because you have found an excuse to stay miserable? Well Mazel Tov! now you can happily blame people and free yourself from all the responsibilities of your life
Life is pretty much simple and has always been, its us who makes it much more complicated at our mental state by giving the control of our life and emotions to other people or things. If things go wrong you have your whole life to make them go right. We hold the power to change our life, we set goals to achieve and we work towards them but if we don’t then the problem is with us not with the goals. Taking the control of your life isn’t that difficult you can accept your failure and move yourself to do better next time until you make it all right.
WHY DO WE BLAME?
-We blame because it’s easy.
As simple as that we blame because we think it’s easy and better than taking control over it. Well it should be justified also that what you think is easy is not something you should do!
-Another reason we blame people is because we fear of being judged by our mistakes so we simply put the blame on everything else around us. Let me say one thing i heard a long time ago and echoes in my head forever.
“if you are determined and working towards your goals what happened in the past no longer matters.”
People have an issue of making a big deal out of it, but we all cannot control our reactions towards what they say. Because someday you will make it all right and this won’t matter.
But if you’ll stop today with excuses you might regret this forever.
What it takes to take the control of your life.
Well simplifying the title here is all it takes to take the control of your life is COURAGE. Sometimes a little and most of the times A LOT OF COURAGE. If you have the courage to take the control half of the problem is solved already because the question arising outside for you the answer will always be within you so, sooner or later you will find it and make it right. But if you won’t then you probably never will.
“And what you’ll get by taking the control of your life in your own hands is EVERYTHING YOU DESIRE”
- Shreya Minocha
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