1. Believe Me! There's No One Else Like Yourself...
Recognize your own Worth. it doesn't matter if you're an employee, working day in and day out, on uptight busy schedules and desperately putting in your best efforts to achieve the desired target, within a limited framework of time or you're a busier than busy,,heavily indebted businessman! In everyone's lives, there comes a saturation point, when we begin to doubt, overthink our troubles and meanwhile, in the process of turmoil and confusion, end up making egregious errors.
So, currently, if you're facing such a time of hardships and indecisions, _parry a blow _ vicarious situations /circumstances which might be enervating your energy and tiring you out. Instead act on firmly, become headstrong displaying perspicacity!
2. We Live In a World of Demagogues, Rabble -Rousers...
If you're the type, that's easily affected or aroused, by glib talkers amongst you, there's a fairly higher chance of manipulating and exploiting your sentiments and emotions. Exactly the same reason, why a particular chunk of society ,loud mouthed, fixated and highly opinionated in their minds dislike protagonists or iconoclastic figures. Such people are representatives of typical mob behavior,that usually and easily gives in to hysteria!
generally a phlegmatic person is seldom perturbed by hocus-pocus happening around them, as they are practitioners of
critical thinking and analytical skills. Remember the last time, you believed over a 30 minute story of Zombieland, chill...hey, it was a wonderful piece of fiction.
Or when was the last time you jumped up on your couch,scrolling the baffling message on your mobile screen up and down. Be more circumspect..before you take a leap..trust your instincts,when you've got nothing to hold onto.
3. If you're Up for a Meeting , make it a point to Never Show Up in a disheveled Appearance...
We live in a highly sophisticated world, where a random person judges another one almost instantly, unless you're not some recognized personality! Based on your Looks, Clothings,Dresses, Shoes, Jackets, Mobile Phones..../I-phones, people respond back to you or even think of sparing a thought for you, apart from their hectic lives. Believe me, majority of population is really judgemental, and if you show up to your prospective future employer, dressed in shabby clothes, chances are you'll be looked down at, regardless of your wisdom. Remember , most of the people are way too chirpy, and quirky..almost like a Quick Reaction force,, so if you wish to make your First Impression a Satisfying one, atleast try your best to show up neat and tidy.
4. When you change the Way you look at things, Things you look at Change...
We all have our own reasons to complain and whine about..But, if only, you'll rise above What-aboutery, you'll be able to grasp the truest essence of life, in all it's serenity and composure.
We all have our own share of pain, misery,trifles. No matter, whichever or whatever prestigious positions, we may hold , we''ll always have to face apologists, who shall try disparaging our best efforts, maligning our 'Reputation' to the dirtbag...Never Lose your focus, and continue on your path almost unstoppably . Be at ease with yourself and you shall be at ease with the rest around you! Practice honest, self-disclosure.
5. Stay Away from Adulators/ Blind Followers
Some people have an inbuilt tendency of overdoing things. They might be great worshippers or flatterers..who try to praise and lick fulsomely! Admiration is expressed in such a lavish way that the person being admired seems devoid of human weaknesses/fragilities. Never Allow a Soul on this earth, to diminish your aspirations into the ground! Cause Only you, yourself can do that ..You do not Owe Explanations to random people, crossing your ways..You're Accountable to only a handful of people,who actually matter and feature in your lives for your actions and responsibilities.