parenthood feeling

It's not my habit of posting so much on Hive account@dtube ( #dtube ), but this video is all I see. I feel a strange feeling. I think every father will feel what I feel. Every young man and every young man dreams of having an offspring to take care of them. And when it is linked to the marriage contract sees that he has stepped up steps to realize his dream to be a father, and when he becomes pregnant wife and begin suffering in the journey of pregnancy tired you find that despite the effort of his wife and fatigue, but feel nothing like their happiness; Because they find that the hours of waiting and waiting for this guest are imminent, and then after They plan and draw what they want for this child to be ....?

And as I passed those beautiful feelings and emotions filled with emotion I wanted to be one of the closest people to my children, but the treatment between us is based on respect and guidance and advice only, as if we are in school, but that the relationship between us as if we were friends, all boys, We are all listening to the other and consulting, and the relationship will not be so without the effort of the father, but must contain the child since childhood, but at all stages, especially adolescence; to get the results that he plans and paints.

When my son was a sperm I did not feel the feeling of fatherhood so much that began he grow little by little, and I felt his movements in my wife's stomach I was pleased so much, I often read the Koran aloud when he was in my wife's belly and did not go out into the world yet, because I know its effect positively, even after birth, and I have never stopped praying for him to be a good child. I was interested in him a lot, and I do not leave anyone who takes care of him, but I care to take care of himself, him bed next to me and do not lose sight of me even if I was tired, even if I was disturbed and I can not sleep for his so much crying, I do not want him to be away from my eyes for a moment, and so I continued my feelings towards him a lot, when he wants to sleep always be close to him and always beside him, Always accompanies me when I want to go out even if my exit to spend a need of the market, for example, I try to read a lot in the education books that belong to the stage my son is going through. To find out a good way to educate him, and that I am walking in the right direction; Because some may strive to use a method does not know that it may come contrary to what he wants because there are those who see that the intensity and firmness are the best method of education, whatever the children, And whatever age and whatever time and age they live in, knowing that the method used by some parents may be useful with one of the children and not be useful with the other, So you should pay attention to that and understand the psychology of the son to learn how to deal with it, reading in the books of education contribute to this significantly, as well as exchange experiences of those who were greater than us and were proactive in work or writing in this purview.