The years pass at a speed of light... The most famous law of life is ''everything is changing'' and life is not going to wait for you because you may feel that you are not ready or you are bored or you just afraid... We live our lives based on stereotypes, based on what others will say and we usually live in the fear they have created us in our childhood and they passed it through us for the rest of our lives ... We often miss important moments of any age, with the constant exclamation "Come on, I will do it when I have time or when I have money or some time in future", and suddenly you reach 50, with repelleds and a life deprived of any madness you deserve to do, so that you can remember when you will be 80...
The problem starts with the "adults" , where their advices to young people is about how to make them stop behaving like immatures in order to protect them. And that's how a lot of us, end up being in the category of "you're young only once, but you can be immature forever", because you simply have been deprived of the age you had to experience this "immaturity" ...
From 20 to 30 at least, you should think about laying the foundations for the future and then taking your steps towards exploring love, socializing, experiencing the adolescent's transition to adulthood and the joys of this transition . The essence in these ages is to be as spontaneous and immature as you can, so you will know your personal freedom.
In these ages, our senses are in their zenith in all respects, and there is now the dynamically beginning of your life! You will study, you will change 100 jobs to get to know what you like, you'll go through a temporary search for yourself to see what you want, who you are, where you go, you will make the best sex because you are young, weird and resistant, you will experiment in various ways, you will travel with the euro trail, you will sleep in hostels, you will party to the end and you will know your first love, you will change and you will meet 1,500 friends, you will be careless, charming and unforgettable, you will live your most important moments towards adult life.
Initially, an important issue is that most of you, are rushing to know monogamy from the 20th and so on. Losing the best moments of their lives, because in this way you are forced into the routine of the other, you are like married couples and leave the mundane and intense social life. Do not rush, you will have plenty of time in your life to live a more' 'calm' 'and romantic life, exclusively with your' 'mate' ', but for the next years let life show you the most carefree, erotic, adventurous side... Live your stormy love, taste it but after that... Try to live more with other loves, everywhere and nowhere ...
However, by the age of 30, the things that would be nice to live and remain unforgettable with their good and bad ones would be:
To cohabitate
Live or work abroad
Finish your studies
To work
Do activities, learn any foreign language
Visit museums and historic sites
Have a tattoo without having to repent
Make your craziest thoughts real with your friends
Experiment sexually
Leave your parents house
Do your best and your worst drunkenness
Live a Stormy Love
Take your driving license
Spend irresponsibly your money (but also try to learn how to manage them)
Do extreme sports
Do a trip with your best friend or just yourself, without having a destination
And the most important, learn to love life
The "complexity" of our lives is so mysterious that if you look at it more calmly you will find that it's much simpler ... People must live throughout our lives beautiful, carefree and trying new things continuously . However, the circumstances and the change of our character sometimes, does not allow this ... The unfortunate thing is that many young people follow the pattern of a more structured life, older than their own, and even life itself when you are young justifies living more spontaneously. All ages have their own special magic. Are you worried that you will not grow up? Do not be afraid. It will happen too quickly, taking on day by day more responsibilities, expenses, more weariness, and then you will realize how important it was to live more casually once ...
Those who cry and feel that are missing something regardless of our age, deep inside us is about the youth that we lost or that we didn't live properly ...
In conclusion, at any age you will have something special with yourself and those around you ... It is just some honored ages of our lives that give us the strength to "go crazy" and enjoy it more! In the end you only live once, the time is short and you have to get to know life in all its expressions...
So my dears, life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we’re here we should dance...