Hi, educators...
Children are the most beautiful gift that is given the god to every human being, childbirth is not a difficult thing but to grow children is a big responsibility for every parent, parental responsibility in educating and building a child's character is very difficult, it is in the feel from by some parents.
a child is born in a holy state like a piece of white paper that will be given a scribble, whether it's a good scribble or a bad stroke for a child's life. parents play an important role in filling the graffiti because the first education perceived by a child comes from a family
A stroke may be permanently attached to the child's personality and the streak can also be removed but still leaves a mark that will not disappear, so parents should have knowledge and policy in educating children.
The violence that happens to a child such as hitting and cursing often occurs intentionally or accidentally, this will imprint on the child's physical and mental, this is often done parents to their children without being deliberate.
Regret always comes too late, because punishment given to children will negatively affect the child so for that let's remove the negative influence by embracing so as not to leave the trauma that is in the subconscious of children
Educating children by embrace method is very rarely done by parents but tends to just give punishment alone without curing the bad influence in a child's memory. Educating children with this method is not difficult, only the selfish nature of parents who want to always exemplified by a child even be a catastrophe for a child, apologize to the child is not a difficult thing to give a positive outlook and not put forward the selfish nature is a way of educating children most appropriate.
Parents should make mental and physical healing immediately, after punishing children for intentional or unintentional punishment.