I think everyone has at least once had a fortune cookie and had advice that made him puzzled. In such important decision I do not rely on fortune but research first with possible prognosis and then decide. So just through both messages away. As to mom's advice, I would listen to it, nobody wishes their children to be unhappy, but in this case I will decide myself weighing all pro's and contra's
RE: Mid-Week Musings: Conflicting Advice