I feared asking questions in school. Even the thought of wanting to ask a question overwhelmed me with emotions such as intellectual inadequacy, resistance and judgment. In my own eyes, the need to ask a question defined me as being an under-achiever, stupid, and someone who will never attain to much in her life when it comes to a successful career. I erroneously believed that only those who are clever, smart and intellectually inclined don't ask questions.
Today, EQAFE exists. Every Question Answered For Everyone. This may pertain to our relationship with the mind, self, body, existence and beyond; yet it has been my life experience with questions that supports the very purpose I live as today.
My relationship with questions drives the fiery passion within me and what I do to support people to gain perspective and understanding in who we are, why we are here, how we can improve on ourselves, our lives and that of humanity with the access I have into existence and existence has through me via Portalling.
Questions have to this day, become my greatest source of support:
Questioning my mind, my thoughts, behaviours and personalities has lead me to strive for progress in learning about myself to contribute in my process of self growth, expansion, change and betterment in who I am in thought, word and deed towards myself and others
Questioning others’ tonalities, behaviours, words and reactions with understanding has supported me to instinctively react less towards others, take them personally less, and instead supported with my relationships in life flourishing more into mutual respect, support and regard for one another
Questioning beliefs, religions, spiritualities within the principle "investigate all things and keep what is good" has supported me to climb outside my own box of world views, challenged my own opinions, self imposed limitations to expand who I am and how I live in ways that better me and my relationship with life and others in it. This equally supported me to truly understand the meaning of having an 'open mind / self', which has allowed me to meet extraordinary people from all walks of life who have enriched my relationship with me, others and life itself in extraordinary ways.
Questioning everyday-life-little-things and events happening on a global level within the starting point premise of seeking ways to understand myself, life, everything and everyone within it more, has allowed me to become more solution-oriented. I thrive on approaching problems within myself and in life with understanding what it can teach me, so as to learn as much as possible in this journey and process of Portalling existence's understanding to people to support where, when and how I can in people thriving into their utmost self and life potential.
Questioning has supported me to journey into existence and beyond during Portalling. It was with questioning heaven's initial relationship with earth and humanity that started this process and journey we now have walking with myself, beings and so much more to develop, create and design methods and techniques to support people in understanding themselves, life and the world better with the prerogative of finding solutions from simple everyday life challenges to challenges faced on a global level.
It is questions that have to this day kept me humble. Knowing that I don't know everything has become a reliable strength, ensuring I will always learn and so grow, expand and evolve. Realising that others are in my life to learn more about myself and support / challenge me to be my best; has kept me humble in my self trust and courage to know I will always, when not understanding something, ASK or do what it takes to LEARN to finally have an answer to my question / need for understanding.
I will continue in my next post with:
The importance of who you are when asking a question. It is not so only the question that determines the answer you receive, but who you are within the question and much, much more.
Sunette Spies