Two days ago when I went for a walk, I met someone who lives 2 blocks ahead from my place and I have known this person for some time. He was watering his flowers. When I said good morning he didn't care to greet me back. Instead, he was scolding sun for ruining his plants. If it doesn't rain soon we all have to face big problem. He was more worried about his flowers.
It seemed pretty much fair, because we didn't have rain for weeks.
Two days later when I was waiting to catch a train today in the morning, I met the same person. And this time he was scolding over the rain, for making his favorite black suite wet. The same man needed rain when he was scolding the sun and now he has the same problem with the rain as well.
With this little incidence I realized 2 things. I realized, it wasn't the sun neither the rain was the problem. It was the man who was waiting to find a reason to make a problem. And I realized people always weeping for what they don’t have than being satisfy with what they have. It is very hard to satisfy a person.
And still they say we want to be happy. But actually no they are not. Instead finding a reason or a solution to be happy, they always look for the things which they can complain about.
But there are lots of things around us to be happy. Thing is we don’t see them. We don’t see them, because we don’t look for them. We always look for the things we can be upset. That has now become a habit and we attract more of it. Even if they have enough reasons to be happy they habitually turn those to be reason for worrying.
What about you? Are you in the same Weeping category or Are you one of those Happy Person?