Losing someone special, close or a loved one is devastating. The pain can be unimaginable, excruciating and hard. Losing a partner is something most people experience and it leads to a cross road where what you do is questionable. Questionable both to the living and the dead. But the dead is dead so there's no point feeling you are betraying them by your decision.
When people lose a partner, a husband, wife, boyfriend /fiance or girlfriend/fiancee, they feel empty to the extent some people take the decision not to love again or even socialise. This can be damaging. It hurts more than anyone who looks at a berieved would see. But even the deceased would want you to move on and be happy.
How about this? Mourn them for as long as you want but in doing so never hold your life back. Because life is short and full of uncertainty. You should embrace people around you, inspire them and let yourself be inspired. You could find a new interest;music,books, charity e.t.c. Your wound might just heal faster wirh such exposure. Ignoring the world won't bring who you lost back. So why not take a decision to live the rest of your life in happiness hoping one day you will be reunited with your loved one.
If you fear losing another person, I can't tell you the pain gets better, but remember life doesn't hit you with what you can't handle or take. So let's all live life like it's our last day.
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