Nowadays, long chatting between boys and girls is becoming a common thing in our society.
In the beginning, it starts with just “haal chaal”, then gradually the heart gets used to this relationship.
And then there comes a time when if there is no conversation even for a day, then one starts feeling anxious.
But one must think about one question…
If the end of this relationship is not marriage,
If the girl clearly says “I cannot marry you”,
Or the boy knows that this relationship is not possible…
Then what is the benefit of dragging such a relationship?
It neither gives peace,
Nor strengthens the heart,
Rather it gradually eats the person from the inside.
The right way is that if you like or love someone, then talk about marriage in a clear, honorable and lawful way.
If there is no way, then for the sake of Allah, this relationship should be ended.
And remember…
Such relationships become a habit, just like an addiction.
At first, it seems difficult to leave, the heart aches, misses, feels anxious…
But this is the time when a person should keep himself busy:
• Put his heart in prayer
• Recite the Quran
• Exercise
• Spend time with good friends
• Protect himself from loneliness and useless chatting
Slowly the heart recovers.
And then the person understands that what he was considering as life was just a habit.
Remember:
Every relationship that is against the will of Allah, eventually wounds the heart.
And everything that is left for Allah, Allah gives better than it.