Fear is something that sometimes holds us back from taking the much-needed steps to get what we truly desire in life. Nothing is guaranteed in life's path. There's always a possibility of failures or hardships. No one, not anyone can tell for sure what's going to happen in the next second, and it's frightening, if truth to be told. But there should be a limit of fear. There are so many people who fear the uncertainty of life so much they give up their real dream of life and choose a seemingly safer path in order to be ‘happy’; but can they find real happiness?
Let me explain the situation in a bit more detailed manner: Suppose someone's dream is to be a wildlife photographer, which is a much more challenging career than that of an accountant. Knowing this, that someone chooses to become an accountant after a long consideration, though it was nothing he wanted to become in the first place. But rock beats the scissors and safety wins over dream. He becomes an accountant, gets a well-paying job. Things go pretty well for a while, but then comes the regret: What if I had chosen the path of my actual dream? – and this two words ‘what’ and ‘if’ haunt him together for the rest of his life. What if he would have been a little braver and at least tried to pursue his dream for a while – what could happen if he hadn't give in to the fear of uncertainty? All these questions will chase him like a bunch of ghosts for the rest of his life. I’ve seen so many people suffering from this situation. well, i, myself would have been one of them if i hadn’t taken the decision of following my dream to be a writer instead of an accountant at the right time. – Yes, it’s a challenging field, and some of my friends from the accounting school are doing really great – but when i picture me where they are now, i don’t feel happy at all. They might be more ‘successful’ and acceptable to the society than me, i’m as happy as i could be with my life and the choices i’ve made. And, being happy is all that matters. i don’t want to work for a corporate giant or hold a vital position within the government, i want to put my thoughts and imaginations to paper/screen and share it with the world. When i look back and see the moment when i decided to become what my heart had been telling me to become, i feel no regret – instead, nothing makes me feel more complete. If i hadn’t taken the action to follow my heart, i might be regretting that night and day this time- which i’ve seen many people are doing, and some of them are among my friends- and thus, the quote in the picture makes so much sense.
“fear is temporary regret is forever” – might makes sense to different people in different ways, however, it makes sense to me the way i’ve described above. Follow your dream, no matter how the uncertainty of the outcome frightens you. Not regret for the rest of your life by giving in to a moment’s fear. Regret sucks out happiness like nothing else, there’ll always be a hollow space, an emptiness that can never be filled no matter how rich or successful you become if you don’t be brave on that deciding moment. Life is uncertain, deal with it – be brave and be truly happy for however long you live. May Allah bless you with his limitless kindness and forgiveness.
have a nice day.