The idea of child abductions or molestation is one of the most frightening things a parent can imagine. And, many people feel helpless about the possibility, leaving them to fear letting their child out of their sight for even a minute.
However, in reality, there are many things you can do to prevent your child from being the victim of abduction or the victim of a sexual predator. Here are some tips and facts you should know.
The first step you should take to protect your children is to alert them about the dangers of child predators. Your children should be made to feel comfortable that they can tell you anything, and they should be educated about inappropriate touching.
In addition, they should be taught what to do when approached by strangers, so that they know not to accept rides, etc. Gentle, consistent education can help protect your child from sexual predators and from abduction.
You Don’t Have to Scare Them
If you approach this subject with the same tone of voice and comfort level that you use when talking about bike safety or other safety issues, you can make your kids more aware without scaring them.
Make certain that they understand that it's never appropriate for an adult to ask them to keep secrets from you. Practice safety skills with your kids. Show them where pay phones are located and how to use them.
Give them ideas about the right kinds of people to approach for help when they need it. It’s a good idea to let them know to look for another mom with kids when they’re separated from you or need adult help.
Don’t let them wear clothing with their name on it out in public, as calling a child by name is one device that predators use to get close to children.
Be Prepared
Next, it’s important to have the appropriate documentation handy for the authorities in case you need it. Child identification cards are often issued by the schools at the time that school pictures are done. If not, check with your local law enforcement agency. Many law enforcement agencies sponsor id card booths at local events or provide id card kits so that all kids can have picture id cards.
Finally, there's no substitute for supervision. You are your child’s best defense against child abduction and other crimes against children. Know your babysitters well and know where your children are at all times.
Know where the registered sex offenders live, and make sure that your children don't venture near their homes. Remember that most children who are molested or abducted know their molester or attacker.
With some attention, prevention and education, you can reduce your child’s chances of being the victim of a crime against children.