"The old man lived with his old woman
In the blue sea;
They lived in a ramshackle hut
Exactly thirty years and three years.
The old man caught the fish in the net,
The old woman was spinning his yarn."
"Who's the boss?!"
This rhetorical question is used by man
when other arguments do not produce effect on
his woman.
Apparently, the husband hopes that the life of a friend in the head
sitting model of a native Russian relations, and simpler:
"the husband is the head of everything".
Very often a wise woman, moving away from a quarrel, smiling says:
"Of course, honey..." And does things his own way.
"The tale of the fisherman and the fish"
So, live happily under one roof feisty old woman
and the husband is henpecked.
Of course, he understands that the requirements of the spouse is not fair,
but the debate is not solved. And if solved occasionally, it
pathetic attempts to reason with the better half
end in tears.
We would call such a wife, a woman - "mother".
It is the head of the family. She controls everything, to all involved,
directs the actions of all family members and persistently
helps even in cases where she isn't asked.
Doesn't need no support and backing. No, maybe
and would not prevent, but possible to do.
On the contrary: pave the way, let's tread, she will be
and husband with the kids for a drag.
Think abut, then "thank you" I say.
Woman - "mother" ( or officer) is usually
are born, but sometimes. When
wife is not satisfied, where floats the family boat and
what does the husband. And one day
she decides to take matters into their own hands.
The wife in this case can take into account the desires
spouse or ignore them, it can open
to bend the line or to act gradually,
step-by-step. Fair ladies full
intrigue and subterfuge.
Often they get their way and the family lives quietly
and safely. Suddenly, a bolt from the blue:
the husband washed down, or left for another woman, or
just went to solitude.
But often it adapts, even feels
quite comfortable under the wing of undisputed authority.
Gradually realizes your dreams or forget them...
It turns out that the now often used
it is such a model. Aggressive behavior
often, has become the norm in family life.
Why?
It is not as a role model and as a negative
example, as a mandate for all of us, wrote Alexander Pushkin
for us the fairy tale about the old man and the old woman...