<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 11:25:12 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/@thelynx/rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Relational Principles For a New World]]></title><description><![CDATA[As part of a recent prompt to elicit visionary descriptions of an ideal future world, @kennyskitchen observed, “most folks can give you a list of things that they want to see an end to, problems they see]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/tribesteemup/@thelynx/relational-principles-for-a-new-world</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/tribesteemup/@thelynx/relational-principles-for-a-new-world</guid><category><![CDATA[tribesteemup]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[thelynx]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2018 14:52:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/23KQwnti57stuXpnvnU2D4w5Hhi3Micu1ZRCk7Tjiao4xBwLYzD8UGf2ap5ZTcWhK3YPZhJvfrdMy2nbe2nSnoqvGgjXAPx?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Equity as a Personal Guiding Principle in Relationship]]></title><description><![CDATA[I've been giving a good deal of thought to equity, how it differs from equality, and what it might look like as a guiding principle in my life. I'd like to share an example of a way in which equity has]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/equity/@thelynx/equity-as-a-personal-guiding-principle-in-relationship</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/equity/@thelynx/equity-as-a-personal-guiding-principle-in-relationship</guid><category><![CDATA[equity]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[thelynx]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 28 Oct 2018 21:37:27 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/23KQwnti57stuXpnvnU2D4w5Hhi3Micu1ZRCk7Tjiao4xBwLYzD8UGf2ap5ZTcWhK3YPZhGZ5x4ou8xUnLPadaGsuGKG1Gi?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ten Violent Things I Used to Believe (And Bringing my Values and Beliefs Into Alignment)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Understanding that, as one of my professors recently mentioned in a presentation about the neuroscience of othering, “negative emotions trump positive ones and weigh more heavily in our evaluations of]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/life/@thelynx/ten-violent-things-i-used-to-believe-and-bringing-my-values-and-beliefs-into-alignment</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/life/@thelynx/ten-violent-things-i-used-to-believe-and-bringing-my-values-and-beliefs-into-alignment</guid><category><![CDATA[life]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[thelynx]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2018 01:37:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/23KQwnti57stuXpnvnU2D4w5Hhi3Micu1ZRCk7Tjiao4xBwLYzD8UGf2ap5ZTcWhK3YPZhJo739wsLNi4tVFV3D4tCTg7HQ?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Shadow Sides of Our Personal Power]]></title><description><![CDATA[A skillful mediator or dialogue facilitator can recognize the power dynamics present in a room and call attention to them, inviting participants to bring their power to bear on the conflict at hand in]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/life/@thelynx/the-shadow-sides-of-our-personal-power</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/life/@thelynx/the-shadow-sides-of-our-personal-power</guid><category><![CDATA[life]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[thelynx]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2018 19:55:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/C3TZR1g81UNapwcuMu2ehPgeoLQuRtiV63S3xSSt5LnDrKdvHa5moDebjEjG2Znkm9oaCfTtJ43uP5qPBAfYjyoKhL87UGJEDygyQx4B2jcCDJZwDM5eSZU?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Support a Grieving Friend]]></title><description><![CDATA[As the natural world turns inward with the coming of autumn, the leaves falling from the trees and the annuals turning to spindly brown ghosts of their wild summery selves, it seems timely to think about]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/grief/@thelynx/how-to-support-a-grieving-friend</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/grief/@thelynx/how-to-support-a-grieving-friend</guid><category><![CDATA[grief]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[thelynx]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 07 Oct 2018 20:58:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/8SzwQc8j2KJZo6c43w4Bg9ysSuq4sua46yAeUgxyy3WnRJ2vSgsYa6T5u6avMNQ1A4MxeYi7qvEj8mB22rDAH9RiQEbioccEf14rBJvbpRA44fDtDEE?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[What Would You Do for Society If You Had All the Resources You Needed? (@TribeSteemUp Bi-Weekly Question)]]></title><description><![CDATA[There are a lot of things in this world that are not as we wish for them to be. In thinking about how to answer the bi-weekly question from the @TribeSteemUp community, organized by @Trucklife-Family,]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/tribesteemup/@thelynx/what-would-you-do-for-society-if-you-had-all-the-resources-you-needed-tribesteemup-bi-weekly-question</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/tribesteemup/@thelynx/what-would-you-do-for-society-if-you-had-all-the-resources-you-needed-tribesteemup-bi-weekly-question</guid><category><![CDATA[tribesteemup]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[thelynx]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 06 Oct 2018 21:34:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/4PYjjVwJ1UdtC5FGc4dbhnimoSgD7UrMDvdWGwMTzRwXoPiXEz6fqBG2BCSgxaJ1xJcbSTnSWg8UwuwFMN6tCs2eKU6nXdUxsJhW8vUoaC6?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why I Secretly Like Bad Service at Restaurants]]></title><description><![CDATA[Portland is a great city to live in if you like food, and being fully stocked with food service jobs and adorable hipsters, it's also got its fair share of inattentive, negligent, or dismissive service.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/gratitude/@thelynx/why-i-secretly-like-bad-service-at-restaurants</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/gratitude/@thelynx/why-i-secretly-like-bad-service-at-restaurants</guid><category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[thelynx]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2018 18:41:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/C3TZR1g81UNapwcuMu2ehPgeoLQuRtiV63S3xSSt5LnDrKdvHa5moDebjEjG2Znkm9oaCfJimqhHZNyzYzx6qQhPngfMmBLMM2nrG7wQJEfPcp9wmTNpwNe?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Vulnerability: The Vehicle that Moves Us Between Shame and Empathy]]></title><description><![CDATA[I know we're all up to our ears in Brene Brown, but if you haven't seen this video clip, in which Brown differentiates guilt from shame and speaks to shame's role in destructive behavior, here's your chance]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/connection/@thelynx/vulnerability-the-vehicle-that-moves-us-between-shame-and-empathy</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/connection/@thelynx/vulnerability-the-vehicle-that-moves-us-between-shame-and-empathy</guid><category><![CDATA[connection]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[thelynx]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2018 19:51:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45e4hXXQQscL5i2PkKBxyZwcCSHuqQvUGxqC2?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Engaged Listening as a Paradigm Shift]]></title><description><![CDATA[Engaged listening is one of the most important and foundational skills that I return to again and again in learning about and teaching interpersonal relationship and conflict resolution skills. 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How do our values give rise to our actions?]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/introductions/@thelynx/hello-steemians</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/introductions/@thelynx/hello-steemians</guid><category><![CDATA[introductions]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[thelynx]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 19 Sep 2018 19:35:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/qjrE4yyfw5pGJc5U7EeHPH81qWgWQsG6yFja3hKESAJbihFxC924izpxHRbXKuix9srZYUuSP5juRzdpR5LZn3YMHLDX6LcngzmyZPCL1P5ynAJkShUvmdpa?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item></channel></rss>