The worst part about loving someone is you have no choice. You, as the lover of everything that you love, must love exactly what you love. However, people are fickle. They love everything. They love you for a little while until they love something else- then they forget you. How do we allow ourselves to feel good in spite of this? Well, it's actually easy.
Keep loving. Allow more of it, not less. "But won't I get stepped on?" I hear you ask. Well, yes. But nobody has to know.
If you love people unconditionally, they will usually love you back because it feels good to be loved. It's best to not wait for it...just continue to love and be loved. The worst that can happen is you'll feel pretty good. You can look for less love, so as not to get excited- but since love feels good, this probably won't work for very long. Soon, you will want more love. You may even return to this stupid article to reread it...it's ok, we still love you.
Get a head start when you're feeling bad and look right away for more to love. Go smoke some weed, get in a warm shower, and stay there. Listen to some rainforest meditation on Youtube. Recognize yourself as a vibration- your body simply a thin veil between your soul and the outside world (what has been created).
There is no reality. We make everything. You may as well make love. Even though it feels shitty when people don't love you back, it feels good to be able to love anyway. YOU may as well feel good, if they're going to be shitty. Go eat some yellow cake with frosting, paint a picture, and post it on Steemit. You might make a few dollars, or someone might ask you out- you don't have to go. It feels better to be alone anyway. Light a Peach Bellini candle and write about the best sex...you'll probably get it if you ask for it. The Universe is always responding.
All you have to do is be comfortable and appreciate. Love takes no effort, it is your natural state when you aren't blocking it with worry.
Yes, you can stay in this new state forever. You can feel good forever. You never have to feel bad-in fact, you get to choose what you want because there is no reality. There is only what has been made and what hasn't- we humans are the way in which what hasn't comes forth into what is.
The even better news is- you don't have to think old thoughts. A lot of thoughts are bad for you. How do you know? Because it feels bad to think them. So, why do people have thoughts that don't feel good?
Well, we don't have "bad thoughts" exactly...you just label a thought as bad when you don't want it. Bad thought is the Universe helping you focus on what you want so that you can get it. It's really that simple.
When a situation arises, your brain will present you with options- some that feel bad, and some that feel good. The options that feel off, feel off because you don't want them.
You want to feel good...so think about the thing that feels best. It isn't possible for you to create anything outside of what you're focused on- so focus on what feels good to you.
Focus on love and you will only get more of it. Its terrible, I promise.
