Hello Dear friends what i am going to explain today is about the kids Future Present and past!
Most of the time we missing the main points of the management that we miss manage things.
Most Important:
We need to make our kids special in our eyes we should take care of them and we should listen to them in every way of life if we ignore there dreams and needs and desires we missed the love from them!
What kids can expect from us Love and care and thinking about them! What In my country people are doing they are pressurizing there child to do what there parents need for them they never allow there Kids to manage there life and needs !
When you force someone to do a work they cannot done that work with accuracy they cannot eve concentrate on such work which he really need to finish on time ,you will found them lazy during the work.
Most of the time i have see many students that they are under pressure BY there elders at home to get admission in a specific filed or in a subject which they are not interested in and when they think that they are not fail and there family will more pressurize them they cannot understand and due to become victim of depression they Attempt suicide !
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Most cases in making a relation to a family and a girl parents pressurize their son or daughter which result hater in there heart and when they marry there are two possibilities founded !
One case the boy and girl leave the home after few months because the Boy start thinking about girl and the hater he had for his parent girl take advantage of that and the boy get force by his wife to make a separate home for her and they leave there mom dad alone.
Second case after sometime they do not understand each other and they were not able to manage themselves and cannot have understanding and they broke up !
3 : we should control our feelings In many cases?
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When you think that your kids are not mature and they now understand what are good and bad for them then you should me more care full to them that you will not be rude to them and never show anger on small things that will make them enemy of you and their mind is not that strong that they will think about you that how you will live with out them when they leave you in the middle of your life and you last stage you will have to live alone with out kids!