There is time for everything. Almost everything we come to own in this life comes at the appropriate time, and if you force things to happen, you should expect that they may not last for you. It is not a curse; it is simply the reality of life.
Time to grow
There is always time for everything on earth. If you just start driving a car before learning how to drive it, you will most likely cause an accident. There is a time when you have to face your business, work, or any adventure you find yourself in. We do not achieve success without doing anything; it does not work that way. To grow, it requires that you put in your best at the appropriate time. You do not delay a job meant to be done in the morning till night or a night job till morning. If you want to grow, you really need to master your time and use it judiciously.

People say, “All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.” As true as this is, there is also a time when play must be put aside and work must take priority. You do not play when you are expected to deliver a project.
The truth is, in this life, there are seasons for everything,just like a farmer who wants to plant maize - must be observant and understand the weather before planting. If he fails to take his time and master the process, he is simply planning to waste his seeds and the effort invested. In a country like ours, you do not plant maize in January and expect it to flourish. That is just how it is.
In every aspect of our lives, we all have seasons and times to pursue our dreams, and we must never give up on them. There is a time when we are learning to become useful to ourselves, and there will be a time when we will need to be the boss of our own lives. We do not wait until we are pushed; we do it for ourselves.
Life can be likened to a newborn child. A child that has just been born can not start working immediately; he must first crawl, take his first steps, learn about his environment, and begin to talk. No child skips these stages except in rare cases. In the same way, human beings need to find purpose in life. It takes determination and deliberate action to make it work.
Wecan nott make life work for us without being intentional. The truth is, there is no manual for living life, but there are principles and steps to follow if we desire true success. You can not cheat your way to success; even if it happens, it will not last.