<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 22:54:01 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/@tylersr/rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Day 77- Self-Betrayal]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 77- Self-Betrayal Still dealing with the fallout of self-betrayal as taking in beer that I wasn’t prepared to take in. The “interesting” thing about real self-betrayal is that the]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-77-self-betrayal</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-77-self-betrayal</guid><category><![CDATA[self-abuse]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2021 19:58:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 76- Self-Abuse]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 76- Self-Abuse I had a moment yesterday where I knew I should not have participated in a certain scenario, but I did it anyway. I went into a people-pleasing character and drank a]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-76-self-abuse</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-76-self-abuse</guid><category><![CDATA[self-abuse]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2021 20:05:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 75- Redefining and Living Careful]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 75- Redefining and Living Careful Self-Allocation “Be careful” I was often told during my childhood. Rarely did I want to listen. Usually, it was because I was doing something exciting]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/livingwords/@tylersr/day-75-redefining-and-living-careful</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/livingwords/@tylersr/day-75-redefining-and-living-careful</guid><category><![CDATA[livingwords]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2021 19:33:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 74- Redefining and Living Careless]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 74- Redefining and Living Careless Self-Allocation Point I have within my life assigned a positive energetic charge to this word. This goes along with my Loser Character, where I]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/careless/@tylersr/day-74-redefining-and-living-careless</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/careless/@tylersr/day-74-redefining-and-living-careless</guid><category><![CDATA[careless]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2021 06:19:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/PB8ro82ZpZP35bVGjGoE93K3E4U5KX8KtMBJ2rguDGJaap4zC2DVYV8a5CnEhhvD28SLkQ744m74L42GEVobAkkPHHEks5AUyp2GugVmZSKoBSTG?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 72- Stopping the People-Pleaser Character]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 72- Stopping the People-Pleaser Character The other day as I was preparing to go over to an acquaintance's house, something arose within me that told me unequivocally to "STOP!]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-care/@tylersr/day-72-stopping-the-people-pleaser-character</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-care/@tylersr/day-72-stopping-the-people-pleaser-character</guid><category><![CDATA[self-care]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2021 05:03:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/PB8ro82ZpZP35bVGjGoE93K3E4U5KX8KtMBJ2rgRT3nTwT54WzyBWrMt24cQ2n5zxHxeSXU1itKAczdBhFWm8SQy4KFsjYjcykcx3ZVJzJfWvDvW?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[The 8 Stages of Process -  Desteni Informed You]]></title><description><![CDATA[Social Engineering must have the outcome that is best for all life where every child born is guaranteed a Life of Worth. Life is the Only Real Value on Earth! – Bernard Poolman It is not about agreement]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-196037/@tylersr/94h20pnzals</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-196037/@tylersr/94h20pnzals</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-196037]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2021 21:59:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/4qEixipsxSf1NbXf3traZgrR5Suyr779THzizXuZmRBpCsU8xEyvxePhibukbc6wNN?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 71- Exploring Self-Responsibility]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 71- Exploring Self-Responsibility I have noticed a tendency within me to want to cover all bases in terms of my self-development so that I don’t have to have uncomfortable interactions]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-71-exploring-self-responsibility</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-71-exploring-self-responsibility</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2021 07:15:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 70- Stopping Smoking (Part 1)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Crossposted from Day 70- Stopping Smoking (Part 1) During this pandemic, I made the switch from smoking cigarettes occasionally to smoking them habitually, and it was a conscious decision to make that]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/anxiety/@tylersr/day-70-stopping-smoking-part-1</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/anxiety/@tylersr/day-70-stopping-smoking-part-1</guid><category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2021 21:22:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who or What is Behind Carelessness?]]></title><link>http://direct.ecency.com/carelessness/@tylersr/who-or-what-is-behind-carelessness</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/carelessness/@tylersr/who-or-what-is-behind-carelessness</guid><category><![CDATA[carelessness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2020 05:17:06 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 69- Do You Have ANXIETY?]]></title><description><![CDATA[} From Day 69- Do You Have ANXIETY?Did that title make you anxious? Today I had a silly experience with anxiety. I was trimming my nails and something I do quite often is trim them too short. Well, I was]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/anxiety/@tylersr/day-69-do-you-have-anxiety</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/anxiety/@tylersr/day-69-do-you-have-anxiety</guid><category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2020 14:56:27 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 68- Why is Nobody Helping Me?]]></title><description><![CDATA[} From Day 68- Why is Nobody Helping Me?A thought came up the other day that ‘I am not getting the feedback I need/deserve from other Destonians’. I have been participating on the forum for 9 years. When]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-68-why-is-nobody-helping-me</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-68-why-is-nobody-helping-me</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2020 02:28:33 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 67- Redefining and Living Apathy (A-Path-I-See)]]></title><description><![CDATA[} From Day 67- Redefining and Living Apathy (A-Path-I-See) The process I used to explore this word can be found here: Self-Allocation For me, I can remember developing a certain sense of apathy in my childhood]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/apathy/@tylersr/day-67-redefining-and-living-apathy-a-path-i-see</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/apathy/@tylersr/day-67-redefining-and-living-apathy-a-path-i-see</guid><category><![CDATA[apathy]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2020 09:58:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Process Support: Don't Do Self Forgiveness from the Perspective of Shame]]></title><description><![CDATA[Process support. When doing self-forgiveness, don't feel shame or guilt. It is a tool to transcend the mind, not an indictment. For support, visit the forum: forum.desteni.org Desteni DIP Lite - FREE online]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/process-support-don-t-do-self-forgiveness-from-the-perspective-of-shame</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/process-support-don-t-do-self-forgiveness-from-the-perspective-of-shame</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2020 19:52:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45eHwvjCm1yZ1P4cQXkiY3ibJ3VXFjY7QASj8?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 62- Fearing Sleeping]]></title><description><![CDATA[Copied from Day 62- Fearing Sleeping Today there was a moment where I could see that what I was on my way to do wasn't what was best for me, but I continued on to do the thing I had set out to do anyway.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/energy/@tylersr/day-62-fearing-sleeping</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/energy/@tylersr/day-62-fearing-sleeping</guid><category><![CDATA[energy]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2020 17:35:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/PB8ro82ZpZP35bVGjGoE93K3E4U5KX8KtMBJ2rhmhn3rHgLPKUxfSSzFq1m9bKgLhpY1DWo5XDBTkq6kpTyDboLLphSLwHpPciwNUnEAP1SFUL5U?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[sf 6/21/19]]></title><description><![CDATA[it’s gotten to the point where i’m actually sabotaging myself. i forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to sabotage myself i forgive myself that i’ve not allowed myself to not realize that sabotaging]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/sf-6-21-19</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/sf-6-21-19</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 21 Jun 2019 10:24:21 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[turning a reaction to 'disrespect towards others' into a realization that the pattern starts with self. and respecting self]]></title><description><![CDATA[as i come out of a depressive state, i am presented with opportunities to reconnect with people-at-large. as my psychiatrist mentioned, there will be times when i retreat back into depression and it’s]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/turning-a-reaction-to-disrespect-towards-others-into-a-realization-that-the-pattern-starts-with-self-and-respecting-self</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/turning-a-reaction-to-disrespect-towards-others-into-a-realization-that-the-pattern-starts-with-self-and-respecting-self</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2019 08:15:06 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Self-forgiveness 1-16-19]]></title><description><![CDATA[Something I have noticed within myself is a tendency to want to implement changes from the perspective of mind-over-matter rather than making decisions within the moment. There is something about control]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/self-forgiveness-1-16-19</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/self-forgiveness-1-16-19</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2019 17:48:39 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[People Pleaser Personality - Self-Forgiveness and Self-Corrective Statements]]></title><description><![CDATA[There was an opportunity after work where I had a moment to myself and instead of using that time to move myself in a way that was best for me, I instead moved myself in a way that I believed would please]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/people-pleaser/@tylersr/people-pleaser-personality-self-forgiveness-and-self-corrective-statements</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/people-pleaser/@tylersr/people-pleaser-personality-self-forgiveness-and-self-corrective-statements</guid><category><![CDATA[people-pleaser]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2018 11:40:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[I feel sad right now - Part 2]]></title><description><![CDATA[So it seems like I am still participating within the self-sabotage pattern identified in this post. This warrants another look at the pattern. I forgive myself for continuing to deny myself self-expression]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/i-feel-sad-right-now-part-2</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/i-feel-sad-right-now-part-2</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2018 12:53:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[What I'm Listening to Right Now | Wormcast Mix Series Volume 44- Mr Jennings (Future) (2018)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Enjoy this trippy mix from Mr Jennings @tylersr]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/music/@tylersr/what-i-m-listening-to-right-now-or-wormcast-mix-series-volume-44-mr-jennings-future-2018</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/music/@tylersr/what-i-m-listening-to-right-now-or-wormcast-mix-series-volume-44-mr-jennings-future-2018</guid><category><![CDATA[music]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2018 03:52:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/4i88GgaV8qiFx2k9xAWTCmHmoYfv57vFikyteXzGQDsMzLDh9LGG18bPng7E3RRVvuubbwTSAEUQLjedo8arHy5Kz2nWCogGEVHHpZepBw6NRRPUBRpRjuWjDA?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item></channel></rss>