I was thinking about the definition HOME.
When I was a kid, home was where my toys are, then wherever Mom and Dad are and now where my husband and the kids are.For me HOME is not a place it's more like state or feeling. No matter the place, the luxury or the size of it,but just how I feel there, complete, calm, happy.
The home is a special place, a safe place where we feel comfortable, the place where we recover our strength and takes decisions important for our life. The home is a place where we treat our own wounds. We expect to accept us as we are.
Everyone needs to have a home, or at least a sense of home.Without this feeling the soul of a person becomes ill.
The home speaks a lot about us: about our desires, aspirations and attitudes. Talk about where our energy is directed, what's going on inside of us.
Yes! There is a substantial difference between house and home! The apartment is just a space, and the HOME - THIS IS YOU!
In recent years, it appears that the most common option to look for ourselves, to build our personal development, is out of the door of our home. And our home is just a dwelling - abandoned, undisturbed, neglected, with old furniture, bad, quick food. A place where we live, uninhabited, distracted and bitter. Place of tension, scandals and curse. Or in the best case - it's just a place to sleep.But the most important moments in life happen right at home! At home we build relationships, look at our children, show them what is important, how and what to do on their way. Is it true at home that the real life passes? Then?
When we can't organize our everyday life, our being, we run away from home. We travel and seek unswerving rest and happiness outside. But if there is no happiness and opportunity for relaxation in the house, one thing is for sure - we will not find it in escapes and voyages. Conversely! We risk after escaping when we arrive at home to adapt very hard to the rhythm of life. Trying to hide the discomfort, the fatigue of life, the absence of a sense of peace and inner harmony. Because when there are no roots - there is nothing! Our psyche is weak, the moods hesitant. It is like a boat thrown into the ocean of life, subject to every underwater current and sudden storm.
The feeling of a home appears, when we are in sync with ourselves, with our lives, when we want to live, build, create, give birth, and set roots.
To have our own home we need to grow up. Children do not have homes. They often travel to foreign homes, lodgings and establishments - kindergartens, schools, and grandparents. People who have no sense of home are children.
The home or its absence fully reflects what is happening to us. And it's not bad to realize our fears on this topic.
It is possible for some of us in the childhood to have been afraid to go home because of the unpredictability of the situation they are going to weld there - quarrels, anger, claims, rigor, remarks, sadness, disappointment, indifference .... friends, street, neighbors, but not at home, because the atmosphere was poisoned or cold. The home with something was dangerous! And we were afraid to go there.So now it is so difficult to sit, to create our own space, our own home - we just do not have such an experience! But realizing these dynamics to move forward becomes much simpler, as well as changing things instead of continuing to live in ignorance.
WHAT TO MAKE TO HAVE YOUR HOME?
First of all realize that HOME IS OUR REFLECTION.
And if we want to change something at home, we have to start with our own soul.
THE HOME IS THE PLACE OF STRENGTH, to which we have to treat with respect, so do not dare to defile your home with scandals, curses and lack of respect, because all this negative energy is soaked in the walls, and it takes a long time for you. And the home is a place to give strength - not the opposite!
Let your home be a full cup, so stop feeding on your feet! Your food needs to be consciously prepared and attracts well-being and family happiness. Invite guests and be prepared for unexpected ones. let the home radiate coziness and order! An old saying goes that when a guest enters the house - God enters with him! Therefore, by inviting guests, you invite your well-being into your home. Giving - you get! Do not skimp on this, do not get up to the good gestures, the energy and the attention you give.
Well, by doing all this constructive relationship in the family, you are getting better, more careful, more hospitable, generous, better! Here's where your personal growth is! At home, not outside.
The home should enjoy you, and it is important to be yours. Creating a Home - Create Your Own World! And even if you do not have your own home yet, at least start building up the experience of creating the world in which you want to live! Live well today, do not delay your life for tomorrow!
When you begin to educate yourself about your home, everything will change - your thoughts, your actions and, most importantly, your life!
I think it's worth it and everyone has to try!
Thank you for stopping by and good luck with everything in your life.
