We all tend to meet new people everyday. Some stay in our lives and others leave the moment their mission is completed. Sometimes this relationship turns into something more and at other times it just makes you regret letting such person into your life.
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While you may want this relationship to grow to become intimacy,sometimes you just have to understand that its not meant to be. You may feel that you've found that partner that you've always wanted but the opposite party may not feel the same or even worse may feel that way for someone else
But in all these,i want us to understand that friendship is beautiful when its true,it doesnt have to be intimate. So long you have that person you know you're always free with to tell anything,who wouldnt judge you or condemn you,that one person with whom you know trust is always there. When you feel all this for the opposite sex,sometimes its just natural for you to think that an intimate relationship should be the next step. But at other times its just better to let that friendship remain the way it is.
So lets say for instance you eventually confess intimacy to such person. And it happens that such person says No,you might be on your way to loosing that beautiful friendship You once had. And even if you are able to save that friendship,it will never be the same. You'd always have that look when ever you remember that he or she refused to date you.
So heres my advice to every guy or girl having the opposite sex as a friend,Cherish that friendship,leave the intimacy aspect alone because if it is meant to be then it will definitely find its way.
Enjoy that friendship