Danima sam morala da mirujem zbog neke prehlade. Juče mi je bilo bolje. Dan je bio sunčan, temperatura relativno visoka. Bio je to poziv života da prošetam. Telo mora da radi da se kreće. Treba pokrenuti volju i dobre misli. Sela sam na bicikl da obidjem jezero i njegove stanovnike- labudove, prekrasne ptice. Narod je izašao da upije vitamine koje sunce pruža. Dan je obećavao.
I had to rest for days because of a cold. I was better yesterday. The day was sunny, the temperature relatively high. It was life's call to walk. The body has to work to move. It is necessary to activate the will and good thoughts. I got on my bike to go around the lake and its inhabitants - swans, beautiful birds. The people came out to absorb the vitamins that the sun provides. The day was promising.
Stigla sam. Pri samom pogledu na vodu već sam osetila mir. Ostavljam bicikl i krećem u šetnju. Uglavnom su uživale porodice sa decom.
- Hej!
Iznenada srećem prijatelja. - Kako si? . . . Pitam ga.
Nije baš izgledao raspoloženo. U poslednje vreme se čuvam toksičnih razgovora ali moja procena je da je mom prijatelju bio potreban razgovor. Kontrolisala sam situaciju. Pitala sam ga zašto je neradpoližen. Odgovori su se svodili na stalnu brigu oko nečega.
Dok smo razgovarali pogled su mi odvlačili labudovi koji su zračili suprotno od njegovog straha.
I arrived. At the very sight of the water, I already felt peace. I leave my bike and go for a walk. Mostly enjoyed by families with children.
- Hey!
Suddenly I meet a friend. - How are you? . . . I ask him.
He didn't look in the mood. Lately I've been avoiding toxic conversations, but my assessment is that my friend needed a conversation. I controlled the situation. I asked him why he was unemployed. The answers came down to constantly worrying about something.
While we were talking, my gaze was distracted by the swans that radiated the opposite of his fear.
Tiho i neprimetno su plovili po vodi poštujući svoju prirodu i mir. Uglavnom su se držali grupnog kretanja. Pitala sam prijatelja zašto toliko brine pokazujući mu prstom na labudove i podsetila da se opusti.
Brige su uglavnom bile neopravdane. Zašti? Pa jednostavno postoje realne i nerealne brige. Opravdane su ako nemate krov nad glavom ili ste bolesni ali briga oko odnosa sa ljudima, politike, raznoraznih strahova zbog iracionalnih problema su samo gubljenje energije. Pokušavai je da se opravda čisto da bi duže održavao pažnju.
Silently and inconspicuously they sailed on the water, respecting their nature and peace. They mostly kept to group movement. I asked my friend why he was worrying so much pointing at the swans and reminded him to relax.
Worries were mostly unwarranted. Protect? Well, there are simply real and unrealistic concerns. They are justified if you don't have a roof over your head or are sick, but worrying about relationships with people, politics, various fears due to irrational problems are just a waste of energy. He was trying to justify it purely to keep attention longer.
To je bio znak da ne želim dublje da ulazim u priču. Moramo naučiti da se čuvamo koliko god nam je neko blizak. Ne dopustite da vas ljudi uvlače u svoje drame. Sa iskrenim osmehom ga pozdravih i poželela mu lep dan. Produžila sam bez griže savesti. Treba imati granicu do kog momenta treba učestvovati u razgovoru. Čim osetite da vam biva nelagodno, sklonite se.
Nastavljajući sa šetnjom pomislila sam kako je ljudska briga za svakodnevnicu postala masovna pojava. Na neke situacije mozete da utićete na neke ne. Nekada stvari jednostavno morate pustiti ili prihvatiti. U najboljem slučaju menjajte na bolje. Često ne zavise stvari od nas. Bojite se ovoga, bojite se onoga, a kada ćete živeti?
That was a sign that I didn't want to go deeper into the story. We must learn to protect ourselves no matter how close someone is to us. Don't let people drag you into their dramas. I greeted him with a sincere smile and wished him a nice day. I continued without remorse. You should have a limit to what point you should participate in the conversation. As soon as you feel uncomfortable, move away.
Continuing with the walk, I thought how human concern for everyday life has become a mass phenomenon. Some situations you can influence, some you can't. Sometimes you just have to let things go or accept them. At best, change for the better. Often things do not depend on us. You are afraid of this, you are afraid of that, and when will you live?
Raširite svoja krila i imajte poverenja u život!
Stvari kojih smo se bojali najčešće nije ni trebalo. Opustite se i plivajte mirno iznad vode ali ispod vode neka noge rade najbolje što mogu. Opuštenom i smirenim čoveku ceo univerzum se klanja.
Budite dobro, budite spokojni i daće vam se.
Spread your wings and have confidence in life!
The things we were afraid of most often didn't even need to be. Relax and swim calmly above the water but below the water let your legs work as best as they can. The whole universe bows down to a relaxed and calm man.
Be well, be peaceful and it will be given to you
Pozdrav od Anke vragolanke.
Greetings from Anka vregolana!