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This is a little bit of experience in life, when we grow older, we will have a different view of life.
In the process of growing up, the more you experience, sometimes you feel that the difficulties you experienced before may not be that difficult. As you grow older, the thoughts in your mind are different.
In other words, each stage has a major contradiction.
This is the process that everyone must go through.
It is not the time but the experience that makes us mature.
Some people mature early, maybe because they experience a lot, and some people can maintain a very natural state, maybe their life experience is like a piece of white paper.
Experience is not only passively accept, but there are also initiatives to experience. You said that you have too little experience, maybe you are holding yourself to participate in your life.
When we went to college, we all wanted to join the club; some people dare to interview, doesn’t matter the result, the process of preparation, the tense of interview, the anxiously waiting for the interview result, is a rich experience. If you find it too difficult to choose, these experiences, no matter good or bad, they do not belong to you.
Some people graduated from college, four years of boundless and indistinct, whether it is four years of busy studying for the exam, busying managing club or working part-time, stay in dorm play games all day, eventually it will be different. In four years, everything will be different.
At the same time, they have more experience than you, naturally know more than you.
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Elders often say you need to seize the opportunity to improve yourself. And to improve, that is to experience it actively and positively.
At the same time, high efficiency and casual efficiency is not the same. The same thing, do it once and do it twice, will it be the same? Of course not! Which one will have better result, the one that do it once or the one that do it twice?
After all, not everyone is a genius, but some things can be filled with experiences.
Not only experience, but you also need to think of how to use your experience to the maximum value.
Think of how did you perform on this matter, how you can do better the next time you face the same matter, so that each experience is a springboard for growth, so that you life will plus points of opportunity.
After all, the time is precious, if we go through 10 times, only to sum up experience that can be gained once, in my opinion, is a great waste of time. Everyone is trying to make progress, people who don't mind, may be left behind.
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Is there a good or bad experience? I believed so.
Some experience, such as lawlessness, experience that endanger the society, we are absolutely need to avoid. We are the individual in society, we need to respect but also abide the laws and moral norms of society.
And some unpleasant experience, if we have to face it, do not run away, think it as a gift to life.
Suffering makes us stronger, and setbacks make us firmer. When the suffering is over, you will see hope, after the setbacks, you will be more determined.
No experience must be pleasant and good, and not all experiences are full of pain.
Hope we all will be able to actively participate in our life, so that our life experience constantly increase for us.
