Life is full of choices. When every situation occurs , it is a choice, you can choose how to deal with the situation, choose your own expression and mood, choose how to face your life and live.
You can choose to smile, you can choose to cry; you can choose passive, you can choose to take the initiative; you can choose to forgive, you can choose revenge; you can choose to complain, you can choose to be grateful. When you walk down the street and fall down, scratch your legs, you can say to yourself: it’s really bad luck, or you can also say I’m so lucky that I didn’t broke my legs.
People often find a bunch of excuses to explain why they are not happy. For example, poor situation, having fever, meeting bad people, life is not good and so on.
However, the fact is that you have the right to choose, but what you did not realize is that you keep choosing the wrong choice. After a few wrong choices, it has become your habit, and even think that there is no other choices. It was as if a person was locked somewhere, and there was a key in his pocket, but he would not open the door with the key because he did not know the key is in his pocket.
Since we are living the same day every day, why not live the day meaningfully.
A movie called "Groundhog Day", the main actor is a reporter that are selfish and dissatisfied with his life. He always full of complaints and become unhappy. For four consecutive years, he was sent to interview a "Groundhog Day" celebration activities, but also let him feel like his talent is wasted.
This year same as every previous year, he came to the town to interview, he just want to quickly put this bad thing to finish, and then quickly leave. However, there is an unexpectedly big snow, so he had to stay for a day. After the strange thing happened, when he was awakened by the alarm at six o'clock and found himself back to the "Groundhog Day". Other than him, no one found anything wrong about that day, he was trapped in the same day and continue his life day by day. He began to anxious, and don’t know what to do. He becomes depravate, get into trouble, but still useless. He was disheartened, choose to suicide, but even suicide can not change anything! Because the next day, he is still get up on time, safe, and re-experience the same day! He did not know what reason it was, only know that he repeated the same day every day! His life has been stop at the same moment, it seems like never move forward.
So he began to think, since the same day was repeated every day, then why not take this chance to live the day more meaningful. He then began to choose another type of life - that he could take advantage of this predictive plot and help a child from falling of the tree and treat elderly for a meal. Finally, when he found his true love, the alarm at six o'clock ring again. He found that everything becomes different, no longer "Groundhog Day "and the new day is finally coming.
If you can use a positive attitude to face your problem, then you will find the key to solve your problem.
Life is constantly repeating the same thing, constantly encounter the same thing, and then we all learn to use different ways to face the problem. Until one day, we know how to solve the problem with the best solution, this problem is no longer a problem.
Once you know that this is your own choice, then you find the key. If you like to stuck at there, it is your choice, do not complain. If you want a lifetime of pain, it is your own decision, you are completely free to make any decision. If you can choose to be happy and optimistic, if you can use a positive attitude to face the problem, then you will open the door.
There is an old man happy all day long, people also feel happy for him. Then someone asked him how he can be so happy all the time. "You must have any tips for happiness".
"No," the old man replied, " there is no secret at all, very simple," he went on explaining: "Every morning I have two choices - it is hope that this day is happy or unhappy, You guess what did I choose? I just want to be happy, really happy.
Yes, you can also use a smile to open up your day. Life might not be sunny everyday, but you can choose to open the doors and windows, or shut them up. If you choose to open, the house will be full of sunshine, but if you have shut yourself off, all the windows, all the doors are locked up, even if the sun has risen, you will always live in the dark.
You are the result of your choice. First smile, then happiness will slowly comes.
One way to look at life is to use it as a series of choices, use it to start our every day.
When you have a choice, no matter what choice, you have to ask yourself two things: first, "What will be the result if I made this choice?" This allows you to have a spectrum. Secondly, "Will this choice I made will bring me and the people around me happiness?" If the answer is yes, then do it. Things are so simple, no need to make it so complicated.
You have the freedom to make any choices, you can make it a painful memory, you can also make it a good memory. Life is just made up by different events, how we respond to it, is how you decide for your life.
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