There are some regrets that you still able to make up before the age of 50, but if you are older than 50 years old, you might not be able to make it up. These are the regrets you might have in your life.
1. Too concerned about what others think
There are two kinds of people in this world, one is live for their own life, but not much of people living for their own life. The other kind of people is always care about how people look at them, live for others, always cater to others. When they are old, they will realize that their life turned out to be meaningless, failed to fulfill their own dream.
It’s not easy in our life, don’t always live in someone else's world, don’t always live in the shadow of others, don’t cater to people in a lifetime, don’t let someone define your happiness! Remember, you have to live for yourself and your loved ones. As to how other see you, it’s none of your business. How you live your life, it’s also none of their business.
2. Spend most of the time on work or business, don’t have the time to enjoy life
I had to admit, in this “money is everything” world, there’s always competition. Work, money, power has become the gold standard of success for most people. This all require to work hard, need to work no matter day or night. When they are old, they will regret why they didn’t enjoy their life when they were young.
For a person who does not know how to enjoy his life, there is no difference as a dead person.
3. Did not cherish your loved ones, failed to maintain happy marriage
Able to get married with your loved one is a hard thing to do. Please be kind to your love one, cherish your marriage, do not give up and divorce. Maybe your partner is not ideal, maybe your marriage have all sorts of misfortune, maybe your love has turned plain. But please have confidence in life, because your ideal person does not exist, pure happy marriage without pain does not exist.
Do not set too many rules to marriage, if he (she) is perfect, how can he(she) marry with(to) you? Try to lower the threshold of happiness, reduce the requirement for spouses.
Many young people think that marriage is dispensable and took divorce lightly. When they are old, they began to regret not able to accompany their loved one together. Looking back, found out that they set the marriage expectations too high, too high demands on partners, failed to properly run their own marriage. So be sure when you meet the right person, cherish them, don’t wait until it’s too late to regret!
4. Failed to properly manage the property
Today's society is quite materialistic, more and more family issues caused by property. As you grow older, you must have a plan for your property, especially if you have a lot of children. When we are still alive, we must arrange our property, the sooner the better. If you have more children, the distribution must be fair. Don’t let money hurt your family relationship. If necessary, make a will in front of everyone.
5. Married couple unable to spend rest of the time together due to disease
There is one situation, a lovely couple and they love each other so much, because of disease or disaster, they cannot spend rest of their time together is probably one of the biggest regret in this life.
Maybe you will say, you still can remarry again, but there are people who loved their spouse so much, even if one of them die, they wouldn’t remarry again. The most deepest feeling in this world is the love to the other half.
6. Elderly parents bury their own children.
The most saddest and painful things in our life is "Elderly parents bury their own children." really, I really don’t want to write about this, because this is the most painful things for parents, especially those who have lost their parents, this is a lifetime pain and regret.
I wish everyone in the world won’t have this kind of tragedy, everyone can have a long and healthy life. Live long enough to see your grandchildren and die in peace. But then again, I believe everyone wishes to die in happiness and see your children and grandchildren growing healthy.
7. Left no evidence of your existence on Earth
How can you prove that you exist? Many people thinks that having a property is the evidence of existence. But in fact, you are wrong, even if you have ten million properties, but if you can't leave something useful for future generations, the world will forgot about your existence you.
In this world, there are this handful of people, when you look at your phone, television and newspapers, there are news about them. Everyone is talking about them, their every move, even the things they said will get noticed by people.
This handful of people living in this world, are destined to leave an indelible evidence on their existence, and you should Strive to become those kind of people. Since born to this world, no matter it is work, research, academic achievement, or food, do somethings that can help the future generations, this ways, more people will remember about you.