<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:39:39 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/@yhukayibuot/rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Respect Is Not Forced… It’s Earned Through These Simple Acts]]></title><description><![CDATA[You Don’t Need to Be Rich to Have Class… Just read this social rules and stick to it 🤗 Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-187189/@yhukayibuot/respect-is-not-forced-it</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-187189/@yhukayibuot/respect-is-not-forced-it</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-187189]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[yhukayibuot]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 10:41:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2FFvzA2zeqoVPgRCnRzbu6rj6tCWHWVCA9ZaKB4ZpzN3pUgngFyDGKbnhijnoHMwuVmT3JgEXt9yy4rWgwk5AMCQdpcaGtvM5LRCWfpt1HWk8pMehbZCfmKEPQmjU?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Some Contributions Don’t Come With Receipts.]]></title><description><![CDATA[A friend invited me to his wedding anniversary. We’ve been friends for years, but I didn’t really know his extended family like that. So that day, he introduced me around. The celebration was beautiful.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-102879/@yhukayibuot/some-contributions-don-t-come</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-102879/@yhukayibuot/some-contributions-don-t-come</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-102879]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[yhukayibuot]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 10:02:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2FFvzA2zeqoVPgRCnRzbu6rj6tCWHWVCA9ZaKB4Zpgn8XAx4DQRTgdmmwWkhUTj9zmmppQxhvLMrqVucHkKKy93mTwn7zitN3GyNWHgkuYNAXgka6CbZStDPGGsuG?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dear Love, I am waiting for you.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dear Love, ❤️❤️ I am waiting for you. Patiently. not in a rush, not restless, just waiting with a quiet kind of hope. When you come this time, please don’t come in a hurry. Come slow, come soft, come like]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-102879/@yhukayibuot/dear-love-i-am-waiting</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-102879/@yhukayibuot/dear-love-i-am-waiting</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-102879]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[yhukayibuot]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2026 16:53:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2FFvzA2zeqoVPgRCnRzbu6rj6tCWHWVCA9ZaKB4Zqw9Ac6uvf1apau48gdFNwJ9PKHQcFZZERrvnCHXzcvdJnaj8hN6An43yNbM81DCi4RLzP2f2iryKVqKrxyukA?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[YOUR SURVIVAL IS NOT PUBLIC PROPERTY.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Whoever abandoned you in the ocean has no right to know what the sharks did to you or how you managed to get to shore. Let that sink in. There are people who pushed you into deep waters and walked away.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-102879/@yhukayibuot/your-survival-is-not-public</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-102879/@yhukayibuot/your-survival-is-not-public</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-102879]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[yhukayibuot]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2026 16:46:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2FFvzA2zeqoVPgRCnRzbu6rj6tCWHWVCA9ZaKB4ZqoyqPf8RVXGAE6jguSPb1cz4Ehea3eifxhmeeWvdiZ2RLP2gbqBushJmchHSk1snJXMhi1W7L8acNcCsSkbkS?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Starting over is not failure, It is betting on yourself.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Starting over is scary but it can bring growth. Leaving a relationship, changing careers, moving cities, walking away from something familiar of ten feel scary at first. 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But the truth is I was not shocked by the question,]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@yhukayibuot/the-guilt-of-saying-no</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@yhukayibuot/the-guilt-of-saying-no</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-176874]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[yhukayibuot]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2026 16:10:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2FFvzA2zeqoVPgRCnRzbu6rj6tCWHWVCA9ZaKB4ZqpBg7uHrwZ1aW9rTwjBG4zKPWxiR7jTYGsRdgx4Y23ZJ3zj4X7Dv11otzdCp6LNUaHswqnitXSi7NuB3sai3g?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sometimes, The Bravest Thing Is Choosing silence ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Not every message deserves a reply. Not every insult needs a comeback. Not every argument needs your voice. Sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is stay silent. 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It's not the regular.]]></title><description><![CDATA[If I am to do something to save my life, I will quickly choose cooking afang soup because that is my superpower. 💪 If I were to receive award each time I prepare my delicious afang soup then I would have]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@yhukayibuot/no-it-s-not-the</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@yhukayibuot/no-it-s-not-the</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-176874]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[yhukayibuot]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2025 14:24:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2FFvzA2zeqoVPgRCnRzbu6rj6tCWHWVCA9ZaKB4ZqAX5y4g8Te1XdeSmEVXPKU19i5tEmpbRPLV2YgsbwveYkym8hAgf8jhu1dzjqYwujpwqaaee7EiCNS1PYTGza?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item></channel></rss>