Ever feel disappointed when wanting to do good even in reproach, is not it strange? Truly good intentions of heart change the imagery and then reproach. Those who often criticize must have a bad suspicion in their hearts, they must understand that every good deed is not just about imaging and style. Anyone who intends to do good will have a temptation to criticize or be suspected, but if every good deed negates negatively, it will be too disappointing.
Well-planned intentions turn out to be a disappointment, even when your own friend is criticizing. In addition to making cuts, this reproach is much more dangerous because it can discourage to do good.
This is very bad, hopefully this blame does not spoil your intention to do good despite being hurt. Feelings of disappointment and frustration must be felt, but good intentions and actions must continue, because the benefits can make everyone happy.
Have you ever been lied to? It must be painful, even if it's just a joke. So, start doing good and start planting an honest attitude. In fact, when we want to say the truth, not a few who think we are hypocritical or just imaging. This is very painful. Everyone needs lian people, you can not live alone in this world. You need friends, especially when you're in trouble. Your good intentions to help friends even think about looking face-to-face. Though his intentions really let him feel helped, but why there are still reproaches?
Seeing a friend in trouble, you as a friend must feel sorry and intend to help him. But unfortunately, when you offer help, he refuses and thinks you're boasting. Intentions to help just disappear and disappear instantly. Moreover, wandering to other cities, will be the focus of how to continue living independently and saving money. Goodness actually can even be said negatively by friends, saving intentions and even nabung fairly stingy.
Very common, when the end of the month arrives, and before the new moon comes to decide the shopping needed. Friends who know you're shopping sadly, they think you're a lot of money and are being scattered. Thought very deeply.
Problem appearance is also not separated from the talk of others. Do you realize if tidiness wants to change the look of a mess? You are dressed and even graded for attention, but your intention is just to let other people feel comfortable to see you. All things have been tried to help friends, but your friends help save you from smiling. Your intention to advise love to him, even considered knowledgeable, very painful not at all like that? But, we have to think positively, maybe he's in a panic and can not keep his emotions. We must understand it.
Since you have experienced trauma to disturb other people's affairs, you finally decide to remain silent when your friend is in trouble. But what happens is annoying, you who remain silent is still blamed by judging you as a person who does not care about it. If there is an atmosphere of deliberation, you who are concerned about the issues being discussed also express their opinions. Unfortunately they think you have fought them. Turn your silence and keep your opinions in your heart even say anti-democracy and not tolerate. The pain was amazing!
The good intentions you have done will eventually bear fruit. If you find an obstacle in your process of doing good, it will not change the outcome. Hopefully with your good intentions will be many benefits that not only impact for you, but also for others. Things you say are modeling or looking for attention, lest you put that disappointment into your heart, because things like that can diminish your good spirits.
Other people or your friends are just good at talking, they are not good at doing or intending to do something for others to get help, as well as the benefits of us who have extraordinary and special intentions. Never change your good intentions for small things, guide, raise, add more volume, for your intention to help others who need you. Like me who needs your voice, Lol.
Thank you, this is my writing for this time, if there are words that are not good, not polite, not clear. I can only apologize. Perfection belongs only to God, I am only human who can not escape from mistakes. So, greetings from me 
Note: All letters and numbers are mine, but the picture I got from google, I just use it to connect from my writing