Have you ever sat in a room full of people, laughs and loud voices. But there is still a time lapse of seconds or minutes you feel alone. Because after few hours they are about to leave. You are going to be with yourself. Then you realize the only one that can save you is you.
No doubt we have our love ones the one who cares, listens, supports and cheer up. Those could be any form of relation that exist in the world.
My point is when we are sad, going through something really devastating . There is human audacity to tell the one who is really close to our heart and if I take my own example I expect too much from them that they will do this when I will tell them but in the end it did not go the way I thought. And I get really disappointed on that I expected. I should not be because what they are gonna do will just speak 4 to 5 words of courage or will hype my ability to be happy that is it.
In the end it is me my mind, my ability and power to think about the problem to solve it to be courageous, to be brave to think about the bad sides of the thing to hype myself up to stand once again. It is only me and myself who can do this . Even if people will tell me stories and tales but till my mind, my heart, and my feelings did not agree to do something how could am gonna do.
I am not against those who have support and listens to their supporters and the tales that give them motivation. MY motto is about who do not have these things in their life, they are suffering and tackling with all the problems alone.
Now just think about it what the other person is gonna do if your own mind and heart are not ready to accept .
We are the one who are capable to do anything if we have to if our mind agrees. Then we are not going to need anyone for validation, for support. In the end you just have yourself because some relations are going to leave you because it is written in destiny It is a bitter reality also. The one who was supporting you is gonna leave if it is written you have seen many cases of this on social media may be in real life also.
A time will come when the most supporting and important person of our life is going to be tired of our problems in some cases . Then???????????????????????????????????????????
what you are gonna do for the rest of your problems ???????????????
So just we should try to tackle some of our issues by ourselves by having our own backs by taking advice from others but not relying on just advice and also relying on our gut feeling, our mind, our heart.
Supports are beautiful what if one day we do not have then? Are you sure you can survive without sharing because u have shared all your problems your whole life and now suddenly.
Self love and care is the option to survive in this modern era because everyone is busy out there in their own problems. Be your own motivator and help others. Your happiness is in your own hands.
