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SHOUT OUT THE GIRLS WHO KNOWS HOW TO BRING THEIR FELLOW GIRLS UP!
Whether we are willing to admit it or not, it is true, women pull each other down, to a great extent we are competitive with each other. We usually feel like belittling other women makes us a superior of some sort and its annoying.
We are anti-social towards each other and its crazy , we use lines like 'i prefer guys to ladies, because ladies have so much drama'
'Oh look at her, she's looking slutty' Simply because she is wearing what you either cant afford or something against your standard
You walk into a room and you see guys and girls, watch the guys closely, a new guy will walk into the same room, even though he doesn't know the other guy, he'll greet them and shake them and all, and they are cool, but a new girl walks in and prefers to greet the guys than look at the other girl, sometimes out of fear of being given the cold shoulders.
The notion of woman hating on a fellow woman did not begin today, its as old as can be remembered. Many people often laugh it off, deferring to our curiously ‘natural’ state of being. As if we were programmed or born with it in our DNA to compete with one another. We do to ourselves all the time majorly because of men, friends, jobs, attention, recognition and self worth. Things you can actually win and things you can never win. The tangibles and the intangibles.
We'll always fight for things that are not worth it, like looks and the want to be noticed. We even hate each other over the things that are entirely irrelevant. Not many question it. We make fun of it, acknowledge it, but we don’t really ask ourselves why and how we got here. How did we get this bad?
it is really unfair to us that guys can come together even after a fight to help each other climb the ladders of success, but a lady would much rather help a man than do that for a woman, its annoying and we need to stop doing things like that. If we ladies can do as little as support each other, we would go far!
Even in the company where there is a female as the boss. Jealousy comes in when other female are pulling weight in the company, and they even go as far as forgetting that they are the boss.
this century, even mothers groom their female children to be competitive with each other, so they be the first to get that man or that job. Pathetic! WOMEN ARE NOW BEGINNING TO BECOME EACH OTHERS WORST NIGHT MARES!!
We don't bold each other's back, we pull each other back and we tear each other down!
The almost worst case scenario is imagining a scene of a girl with her boyfriend and then his ex-girlfriend comes in. lol the volcano will erupt so bad that it'll met everything around. like girl chill! he left her for you, why the hatred?
We really just need to learn to be support each other. That's the way forward for a growth in the World, that's the way forward for the women community!
HERE ARE A FEW TIPS I READ TO HELP US HELP EACH OTHER:
1, Compliment a fellow woman's appearance when it is nice, and politely tell her when she appears not so bright
2, If you feel like you envy her, talk to her, about the reason why you envy her, you'll end up learning something to boost you
2, Be a role model of your own, and admire your female bosses.
Don't allow yourself be this girl, this lady, this woman, that gives herself the permission to hate her fellow woman. Admire, be friendly, and remember SISTERHOOD IS A BOND!
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