<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 22:24:07 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/created/desteni/rss.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Suppression is like a Beach Ball under Water. ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Explosive Change is a result of the pressure controls being forced to counter balance the input in and as output release. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself for not realizing and understanding]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/lassecash/@stellardoor/suppression-is-like-a-beach-ball-under-water</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/lassecash/@stellardoor/suppression-is-like-a-beach-ball-under-water</guid><category><![CDATA[lassecash]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[stellardoor]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2022 18:46:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/ADdPNhvhBjfjrUmGKTL1BCZSLB8oEjvFUL54hTAmyBU6xPqsNFig6kzTE49Chgnidz4Zz6a1bZmxedSbp4qaTHh3L?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 77- Self-Betrayal]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 77- Self-Betrayal Still dealing with the fallout of self-betrayal as taking in beer that I wasn’t prepared to take in. The “interesting” thing about real self-betrayal is that the]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-77-self-betrayal</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-77-self-betrayal</guid><category><![CDATA[self-abuse]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2021 19:58:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 76- Self-Abuse]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 76- Self-Abuse I had a moment yesterday where I knew I should not have participated in a certain scenario, but I did it anyway. I went into a people-pleasing character and drank a]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-76-self-abuse</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-76-self-abuse</guid><category><![CDATA[self-abuse]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2021 20:05:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 75- Redefining and Living Careful]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 75- Redefining and Living Careful Self-Allocation “Be careful” I was often told during my childhood. Rarely did I want to listen. Usually, it was because I was doing something exciting]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/livingwords/@tylersr/day-75-redefining-and-living-careful</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/livingwords/@tylersr/day-75-redefining-and-living-careful</guid><category><![CDATA[livingwords]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2021 19:33:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 74- Redefining and Living Careless]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 74- Redefining and Living Careless Self-Allocation Point I have within my life assigned a positive energetic charge to this word. This goes along with my Loser Character, where I]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/careless/@tylersr/day-74-redefining-and-living-careless</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/careless/@tylersr/day-74-redefining-and-living-careless</guid><category><![CDATA[careless]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2021 06:19:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/PB8ro82ZpZP35bVGjGoE93K3E4U5KX8KtMBJ2rguDGJaap4zC2DVYV8a5CnEhhvD28SLkQ744m74L42GEVobAkkPHHEks5AUyp2GugVmZSKoBSTG?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 71- Exploring Self-Responsibility]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 71- Exploring Self-Responsibility I have noticed a tendency within me to want to cover all bases in terms of my self-development so that I don’t have to have uncomfortable interactions]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-71-exploring-self-responsibility</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-71-exploring-self-responsibility</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2021 07:15:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who or What is Behind Carelessness?]]></title><link>http://direct.ecency.com/carelessness/@tylersr/who-or-what-is-behind-carelessness</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/carelessness/@tylersr/who-or-what-is-behind-carelessness</guid><category><![CDATA[carelessness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2020 05:17:06 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 68- Why is Nobody Helping Me?]]></title><description><![CDATA[} From Day 68- Why is Nobody Helping Me?A thought came up the other day that ‘I am not getting the feedback I need/deserve from other Destonians’. I have been participating on the forum for 9 years. When]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-68-why-is-nobody-helping-me</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-68-why-is-nobody-helping-me</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2020 02:28:33 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 67- Redefining and Living Apathy (A-Path-I-See)]]></title><description><![CDATA[} From Day 67- Redefining and Living Apathy (A-Path-I-See) The process I used to explore this word can be found here: Self-Allocation For me, I can remember developing a certain sense of apathy in my childhood]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/apathy/@tylersr/day-67-redefining-and-living-apathy-a-path-i-see</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/apathy/@tylersr/day-67-redefining-and-living-apathy-a-path-i-see</guid><category><![CDATA[apathy]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2020 09:58:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Process Support: Don't Do Self Forgiveness from the Perspective of Shame]]></title><description><![CDATA[Process support. When doing self-forgiveness, don't feel shame or guilt. It is a tool to transcend the mind, not an indictment. For support, visit the forum: forum.desteni.org Desteni DIP Lite - FREE online]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/process-support-don-t-do-self-forgiveness-from-the-perspective-of-shame</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/process-support-don-t-do-self-forgiveness-from-the-perspective-of-shame</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2020 19:52:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45eHwvjCm1yZ1P4cQXkiY3ibJ3VXFjY7QASj8?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[What the F***]]></title><description><![CDATA[Where does worry come from, why am I panicking about things that may never happen ? What is it that makes me doubt that there could be a ‘positive’ outcome? I have been through many ‘scrapes’ if you could]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@wordstoliveby/what-the-f</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@wordstoliveby/what-the-f</guid><category><![CDATA[desteni]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wordstoliveby]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 28 Feb 2020 21:04:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Guilt of behaving in a certain way]]></title><description><![CDATA[In a chat with a friend recently I commented on how in my life I have put others down in an attempt to make myself look/feel better as I perceive it. Why would I do this ? Why make another feel like shit]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@wordstoliveby/guilt-of-behaving-in-a-certain-way</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@wordstoliveby/guilt-of-behaving-in-a-certain-way</guid><category><![CDATA[desteni]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wordstoliveby]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 08 Feb 2020 16:37:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHzbC5JNRXdcio7tsGwknXCWxEyrVJXT7WVv6VhJJtyxJ73du2jhG4Eaf54jowuG2xswWAwpdkWAQvPcpVAWiA5M5wxVFLCksq9wkJkv5Xo6Ud9AeCGMW8E?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[My Journey through Chronic Pain pt.1]]></title><description><![CDATA[‘I want to rip my head off to make this pain stop.’ It’s time to get real. This is what I experience sometimes. After days and days of constant pain, of having to go through all the motions of living and]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/cat/@kellyposey/my-journey-through-chronic-pain-pt-1</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/cat/@kellyposey/my-journey-through-chronic-pain-pt-1</guid><category><![CDATA[cat]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kellyposey]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jan 2020 06:50:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iQbFti19A1m7QunJFJ8dXTjEigymXMbw833qhpBZgpVwQpxjEnP41KC9jELjqXwVxKiFCU51Lbg?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Facing My Own Bull]]></title><description><![CDATA[It came up in a discussion today how many of us have patterns of holding back out of fear of judgment, that we developed from childhood, some of us having had parents who were alcoholic as a contributing]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@kellyposey/facing-my-own-bull</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@kellyposey/facing-my-own-bull</guid><category><![CDATA[desteni]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[kellyposey]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jan 2020 21:17:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2ufhwNgM3qHKGxq8wdcWAiFpcm29FF1vQ7VZHkTuxDF6h2qU4MU83NRcMvtA3bxB48BCWrm9F?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Self forgiveness blog 3: chasing money, getting in touch with myself]]></title><description><![CDATA[I forgive myself that I’ve not accepted and allowed myself to apply myself in DIP/my process as a solution to get out of the mind and thinking I forgive myself that I’ve not accepted and allowed myself]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/money/@adrianblackburn/self-forgiveness-blog-3-chasing-money-getting-in-touch-with-myself</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/money/@adrianblackburn/self-forgiveness-blog-3-chasing-money-getting-in-touch-with-myself</guid><category><![CDATA[money]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[adrianblackburn]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jan 2020 07:23:30 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Self Forgiveness blog 2: writing, self reflection and making money]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this moment, I have no idea specifically what I will write self forgiveness on, no preconceived ideas, yet I noticed a few moments ago that I havent written any self forgiveness in a long time, and]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self/@adrianblackburn/self-forgiveness-blog-2-writing-self-reflection-and-making-money-84df1df520a55</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self/@adrianblackburn/self-forgiveness-blog-2-writing-self-reflection-and-making-money-84df1df520a55</guid><category><![CDATA[self]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[adrianblackburn]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jan 2020 09:32:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[My own fox hunt]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today I witnessed a fox hunt - I knew they were still happening and I live near a prominent royal country home, where the biggest hunt in the UK was taking place, but I had never seen such horses looking]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@wordstoliveby/my-own-fox-hunt</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@wordstoliveby/my-own-fox-hunt</guid><category><![CDATA[desteni]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wordstoliveby]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Jan 2020 22:47:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHcTkduHRkQyv58eUBTwbGhe5ts88mg1YhQh4NXhjAbqNxxf4AjNnWzyzPWdrkTKS2mwkrnBuYx17z1zCpD1QEFYwrVSv5dmnqrHNuzZAzbFMaLMMJyLpHL?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Back to Self]]></title><description><![CDATA[It’s ok to not always have to make a point/ to be right. I noticed at times how I was tempted to kind of fight to get my point across/words heard by others, for someone to agree with me and get onside.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self/@wordstoliveby/back-to-self</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self/@wordstoliveby/back-to-self</guid><category><![CDATA[self]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wordstoliveby]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 28 Dec 2019 08:49:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Drama queen 👸]]></title><description><![CDATA[I got to thinking today about drama and whether life is better or worse with drama in it? Do I create my own drama as a form of entertainment? Do I enjoy watching drama on tv, do I judge drama as not real]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@wordstoliveby/drama-queen</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@wordstoliveby/drama-queen</guid><category><![CDATA[desteni]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wordstoliveby]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 24 Nov 2019 16:49:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHoTgTNcrUpDnUAqow23RLxuj5NvXDZb7kn2NGxhRauZb9zBZcz9nCuxVQzmeCu3AMYsCf6xJNDz2FL33eoxeaB8xc8u3KeY9Qna62bJDQxp2gJ7FcyExN2?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Short love story...]]></title><description><![CDATA[I read a story on Facebook where a man wanted to leave his wife, because he ‘found happiness’ elsewhere - they had a fairly young daughter and in all the time they had been married had no real issues as]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@wordstoliveby/short-love-story</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/desteni/@wordstoliveby/short-love-story</guid><category><![CDATA[desteni]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wordstoliveby]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 17 Nov 2019 09:18:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxJ7MeHk6smJWAsYsrGJPdpsez2XoPKA27hftYyBNauLd3FBVnf6LXRaY1hKgtwnvEoSQxUG8V1qysDj6kfUvHsWvuAuvjM5BWiTUEVQJAhWLNJG6nScyjvn?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item></channel></rss>