<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 00:18:13 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/created/hl-w29e1/rss.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[I resign]]></title><description><![CDATA[Source Shiii...I know I'm late but there's no way I'm missing this one. The last time I was a mediator was probably last year. I have always been good at settling minor disputes. In primary school there]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@chincoculbert/i-resign</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@chincoculbert/i-resign</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[chincoculbert]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Sep 2022 10:03:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/BgxWBRxjvNho1d5owNvLc9kLkZETgqoQLu9zcBbNBbDDEp9W4DbuZJuZuM9uMVUn9etyWqZbPMEVLMsbwzMXq6mL4EuS2VanKUp6jTMsqdpAwVsEa6YuzVCiJPtec3w1LN8w4BDwhDK7XfdVEYxt9t4iFd2NQ5q1seLZR9kNALGBiVk?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Enjoy Being The Mediator]]></title><description><![CDATA[Source Oh hell no! I don't! Or maybe I do when it favours me in the end by having them reconciled. But sad to say, I've only gotten a few good results from all the mediating I've been doing, the others]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@merit.ahama/i-enjoy-being-the-mediator</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@merit.ahama/i-enjoy-being-the-mediator</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[merit.ahama]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Sep 2022 07:10:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/YpihifdXP4WNbGMdjw7e3DuhJWBvCw4SfuLZsrnJYHEpsqZFkiGGNCQDe8H6gJfrKm2Vhe98oqA8XikAAdyzKeG5u7P1xiPu6UdmN1TEkiCpsskgTYyk8X5vu4sFH7SzivjXeVnA1bor7sg9vFtY7dkLRaqsyPbaK8KPhnZNmCwp?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Conflicts are What You Make Them]]></title><description><![CDATA[People in their own little worlds dominate the world we live in, and sooner or later, those people will try to get others to believe and think the way they do by presenting their ideals, beliefs, and lines]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@zestimony/conflicts-are-what-you-make</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@zestimony/conflicts-are-what-you-make</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[zestimony]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 22:40:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2FFvzA2zeqoVPgRCnRzbu6rj6tCWHWVCA9ZaKB4Zqt6XK8PUzZyC7pATSuzKmWE6qiscrpYkbcvz4tqXorVtw5nRMamP3jyvdVnyR6tFqyxw6M73wAKtE7xpEmgr2?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[THEY HATE BUT IT HELPS]]></title><description><![CDATA[image source I have always been the kind of person that keeps to his space, trying not to meddle in anyone's business no matter how big or small,but as time goes on I got to know that it is not one hundred]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@midemanuel/they-hate-but-it-helps</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@midemanuel/they-hate-but-it-helps</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[midemanuel]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 22:14:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/8DAuGnTQCLptZgjHUrRAJGcW4y1D4A5QVJJ7zjzqqKdfVHSS6NapSCC9m379b2ZvrciEoLRLbk3BucqcHvLsYcvzbng7KwpLa3PFRHvPsXm36JXS8He8TCE19aY9c1XtvUqWDt4rSddk7KQhDzps4hfkEmy1QFUvqJSE3AhMz1c?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[It wasn't what i expected]]></title><description><![CDATA[Source If I can remember perfectly, I have been the middle person in the building and settling more than one relationship quarrel, some went well and some didn't but don't call me a bad middle man or]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@dapomolaaaa/it-wasn-t-what-i</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@dapomolaaaa/it-wasn-t-what-i</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[dapomolaaaa]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 22:04:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/YpihifdXP4WNbGMdjw7e3DuhJWBvCw4SfuLZsrnJYHEpsqZFkiGGNCQ17j9jBAQMNEqhomLVzkjqavErS9YRtmPZgb9qWiouY6iXNNyc9NEEqQMq68t8GHenfEE6JAFyak3oNiamFWuMPejNaZcCo37Diwdwb4vMg9MprxQpZkpe?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[An Accused Middle Man!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Hello Hivians, Welcome to my blog, it's good to be back again for another interesting week. Hope your week has been pleasant? Being a middle man in other people's problem is a very noble act but lots of]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@mojtee07/an-accused-middle-man</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@mojtee07/an-accused-middle-man</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[mojtee07]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 21:53:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/3zpz8WQe4SNGkE7moUEDKqob9SdSFQGT6ny3UdZDMBypt2De7mnKDGKgDf9j6wLucMv14xJbgWSjkz6nKXrTjZQxjR6bn7AkmHwGDq6Jj7E49DB4mL2HufNFghNdYKYiFmoZ8q5UjVcAmgqiPAwg?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Lover of Peace.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Image source Good day to all Hivian, it's a privilege to be part of this week discussion #hl-w29e1. Actually, I have a lot of experience of being a middle man, because I'm an ambassador for peace. I have]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@t-monnay/lover-of-peace</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@t-monnay/lover-of-peace</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[t-monnay]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 21:52:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2VZXybTSZJq1HdYsB7fJju9orArN6rhE8eChqEd4EJBp3s3pJ21WHdpJYFDXFRJ5Cz4aAmJ9gMgestBFf5G7fwWNm96aYybm4Z4n2EBwTLs8F3CpnNFTdKDMrBC2xL7EETfnddhMi6VTWzC8o45gdGoEMu8?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Conflict resolution ]]></title><description><![CDATA[image source Let look at all this from another perspective 👇 Have you ever been in a situation where you felt like you were the only one who saw what was going on or how things really were? Have you ever]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@sam9999/conflict-resolution</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@sam9999/conflict-resolution</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[sam9999]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 21:13:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/26uUsAjKTsXCDw7zixZR182JbFKvgzJ9YwsFpTVcRaGCmsqhA1unTgprEUkosLuwyCZ1N68WT5e33FJU5qzdVHqWs69bpvafrENWH8sxz4vW7fABqwBhmGawuxiGYbiE5r3Tnsd6wCdgbBYvFHH437AaTedkorEJBLiLcv?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[A PEACE LOVER - But I respect Myself first ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Right from the onset dispute settling has never been my thing as I have learnt from the funny stories and experiences of people, but that hasn't giving me a total stop to intervene when I see people in]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@khingstan/a-peace-lover-but-i-respect-myself-first</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@khingstan/a-peace-lover-but-i-respect-myself-first</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[khingstan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 21:09:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2dk2RRM2dZ8gKjXsrozapsD83FxL3Xbyyi5LFttAhrXxr16mCe4arfLHo6ZbhoNgH6SiwbWB8yNprAhxshPrkWwWrUemspFkaWRJf72qAt6grDVTVRqdgvE5f466vf3bbGMDbVen8GrsrmmGxmsxUEGsTYHgzWrjGu49GPHzWJ?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[I was the mediator]]></title><description><![CDATA[Image is mine No matter how close we are to people, there would be a time of conflict. I've been opportune to serve as a mediator in a conflict that would have torn a family apart. And you know what, I]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@ckole/i-was-the-mediator</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@ckole/i-was-the-mediator</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[ckole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 20:20:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/5ShzsKnKF7vqASPAqXGPan36goyU7yqWQqyzTTTaNUYWgsTeYuTRPXqjUhxx23N84yAkJVLasKdfDRobSkabwnHdRc4kmhQJtdAU7CviqXAae3CdyZP5SLfnGjgzLh8FLxahfTW72uz2XnT5GegRGm26?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[How i become a mediator between two angry people]]></title><description><![CDATA[Unplash Quarells are a part of our daily life but a person who is wise and understanding avoids them all and knows that it is not necessary to react to everything. Sometimes silence is too good a response]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@eshacheema786/how-i-become-a-mediator-between-two-angry-people</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@eshacheema786/how-i-become-a-mediator-between-two-angry-people</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[eshacheema786]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 20:17:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/gPCasciUWmEzNYtqbGEDRoyYeseHMDTak3FVSeLDwJBJj9En8sQB4u1RwrvAqJmLwdy5j89Hhb85t5ALGHWjFfdZBoVqxFqNv83mJjkFcoKpPJRobWDPJwdb3mZWdPNGHX52DMiewCFMcvx9xA?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[THE PEACE-MAKER]]></title><description><![CDATA[Being a middle man between two fighters has both good and bad outcomes,any consequences might come along, they either succumb to your intervention or you end up been the villain in their story or even]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@imaculate50/the-peace-maker</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@imaculate50/the-peace-maker</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[imaculate50]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 19:34:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/5ShzsKnKF7vqASPAqXGPakzgncLgnonBpRauPEjcMZT6BV9WcxGYDD9GXN4LTF4TQziGBYdwT5JR3TKj25wTFj8r1JYdsugq6qvGAjeeKyCR5mhDeLG67TPVmA5VAJGEH6HbKyCXLbUoeSytAVjXtfsc?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Resolving a Conflict Between Two Friends.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Being a mediator can be somewhat challenging. Not everyone has the nerve to stand in the middle of two warring parties. You could either end up restoring peace or receiving a piece of their mind. Oh yes!]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@dimmablogs/resolving-a-conflict-between-two-friends</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@dimmablogs/resolving-a-conflict-between-two-friends</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[dimmablogs]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 19:25:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/8DAuGnTQCLptZgjHUrRAJGcW4y1D4A5QVJJ7zjzqqKdfVHSS6NapSCC6vkVcb7YMWCoB37AbPMYARqLUhyGkHc5e3XLbmWT4zTFKkCPzTioWiMuytV4w5Afh8hduVKTqGJv5f374UNLfdqfkGVZEeXvazWc7Fy7oogGXaNFv6F9?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Mediator must be impartial ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Mediation is a very important matter and there are many things to consider when doing mediation. So I would say that not everyone can mediate and mediation requires the presence of wisdom. Mediation is]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@anikearn/mediator-must-be-impartial</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@anikearn/mediator-must-be-impartial</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[anikearn]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 19:14:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/54TLbcUcnRm4Bw8fmw3Y3deXChf9UQSDSsMgDEZRompD8Gy2nUnLdkuz5uw6yGa92W3SWJd9N8J96QwqJYXfw2771f6q7FEEyGSVegPSqXBW22eKDDdbR8mTvWQXeeFb2bnrNwKUa?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Being A Mediator Requires Wisdom.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Good day everyone, it has been a week filled with new hope. Source At one point or the other, we come in contact with situations that will require us to act immediately or something will be out of place]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@hivedeb/being-a-mediator-requires-wisdom</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@hivedeb/being-a-mediator-requires-wisdom</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[hivedeb]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 19:08:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/7b4bio5hobgtGQKeTeQ5JMBsn2Ut8rLYxjCfDu89Cq8o97ck2STmmDqMxCV81zEQUePwu9rRJAkYqkkpzvAUasBPAvzWQzffarok6xQm1UTHRRc71CNgnHbQaKmNd2fMpWM4wwiYQ5wNwtH2QD6RMxBgrLH4?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[BEING A MEDIATOR CAN BE CONFUSING ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Hello Hivians Welcome to my blog People have dispute some times in life, it could either be two best friends having a particular misunderstanding about a guy or something that might warrant them argue]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@otuyanancy/being-a-mediator-can-be-confusing</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@otuyanancy/being-a-mediator-can-be-confusing</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[otuyanancy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 18:53:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/8DAuGnTQCLptZgjHUrRAJGcW4y1D4A5QVJJ7zjzqqKdfVHSS6NapSCCAQLNsFbTko9saS3pi6HJvUUKrUi1w4C8VtU9naE8LAKgFfd856oKQWr6mR91jZUPc611vMPzFVXfYWhN8VNxD2L8aLJiN6LNTwUmq4PNmA8B1kHwYayU?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Saying the truth may lead to the mediator  being hurt.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Greetings hivers I believe everyone fine. I have been away for some time now, based on my immediate activities getting so crowded. I needed some time to sort out everything, I am happy everything went]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@isaacngore/saying-the-truth-may-lead</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@isaacngore/saying-the-truth-may-lead</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[isaacngore]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 18:48:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2dk2RRM2dZ8gKjXsrozapsD83FxL3Xbyyi5LFttAhrXxr16mCe4arfLHf16QCMNLmgU76CMKDUUxEP9gzJBLgL7N1bHHLH9gWCB2JxwMgDmYmSUtSvxx8CWufjZSysrAB7nC3hGUFAjDutQZJqJBrVXQqW6FgeALKRUGAm4aS2?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Knowing how to dialogue before a conflict can make all the difference]]></title><description><![CDATA[Font Hello community and friends, I've had to intervene several times in the middle of an argument or fight and always or almost always no one is usually right. In these situations, the essential thing]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@ricestrela/knowing-how-to-dialogue-before-a-conflict-can-make-all-the-difference</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@ricestrela/knowing-how-to-dialogue-before-a-conflict-can-make-all-the-difference</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[ricestrela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 18:21:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2dk2RRM2dZ8gKjXsrozapsD83FxL3Xbyyi5LFttAhrXxr16mCe4arfLJJ4bD4hoW8rX4Wirk842nxZn1pYgca9n5tLCQnDQwvSxJrSSdtwzp3HYKv5idMLgCkSEec72atLSp4VAL3V9CXHLUAF5AtuY8kLzKp1DqMD9ALsGkfg?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sometimes it’s best not to be a mediator in a fight or quarrel]]></title><description><![CDATA[source I have been a mediator in a fight with different people, my parents, friends, families(extended) and school mate. Settling a fight it’s always not easy and it’s another thing to try to settle a]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@mercysugar/sometimes-it-s-best-not</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@mercysugar/sometimes-it-s-best-not</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[mercysugar]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 17:48:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/W5LtFUPm6g73GywJLc4qya717jY4hemJ4yGThw4X28YNpszGtftVExaKwhsbGAPd4j6PgHsZzNm5i4EWLA4NxLuNrnveyj8Y2NapX8YMzzhpTVsW4PFkDhatDPiwdKpXgspEerNLJYeVNecJ6AiPzvsCBCYbY?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Due of my past experience, I played the middleman.]]></title><description><![CDATA[One of the constants in life is disagreement. Disagreements can arise when individuals do not hold the same views or when one or both sides interpret a situation incorrectly. Every aspect of life has]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@tomiajax/due-of-my-past-experience</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-153850/@tomiajax/due-of-my-past-experience</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-153850]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tomiajax]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 16:41:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2VZXybTSZJq1HdYsB7fJju9orArN6rhE8eChqEd4EWcEm21fdnoxPJj6z4pF1e455NnGuH7NWCCt7qM9drG1ywpw7ziHE1gHqRMK3zHkDroFunU5dWBkSqTiqNxBKj3kEwhPQyCJcNvFYPuLcSh3vQmk8iA?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item></channel></rss>