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]]></title><description><![CDATA[I’ve never thought that there would be in day in my life when I would just wake up from my sleep,scream and go back to sleep. When they said problem doesn’t finish, I think the electricity company of Ghana]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@nhaji01/eid-mubarak-problems-here-problems</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@nhaji01/eid-mubarak-problems-here-problems</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-176874]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[nhaji01]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2024 19:51:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/7b4bio5hobgtGQKeTeQ5JMBsn2Ut8rLYxjCfDu89AwBmPyQRoVdKBMrAaktyQFa4Qra8jg9ZtfFLW3YJSLvni9CRutx58z5QrRx3YfFVzYuKJfDM5knLawiECVHfQr2xEjqSiDipPcDyZiTBK1nDRyBdBKbU?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[PhD or Dutch Passport?: A Calculated Decision]]></title><description><![CDATA[PHD or Dutch passport? Over the past few weeks, there has been so much talks on this issue which came up on Twitter. Apparently, a cleaner in the Netherlands claims he’s better than PHD holders in Ghana.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@nhaji01/phd-or-dutch-passport-a</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@nhaji01/phd-or-dutch-passport-a</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-176874]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[nhaji01]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2024 19:08:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/6VvuHGsoU2QCK6yq1XKF2xrUpxynFs9SFNnn3DQjuqan99ooG9YWuXZotuStKnn1hL5wpaBuY33119n3vVHfwrxLeeWjGKWqQ3yRCyjCva4iGWrx1417ewhiHRehFL?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[20 Years Later: A Journey Through Time]]></title><description><![CDATA[Looking back to 20 years ago, I would say so much has changed. I can look back to 20 years ago today because I was born then . Hell, I was even running around in school but I can’t say same for my dear]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@nhaji01/20-years-later-a-journey-through-time</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@nhaji01/20-years-later-a-journey-through-time</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-176874]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[nhaji01]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 26 May 2024 19:47:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/W5LtFUPm6g73GywJLc4qya717jY4hemJ4yGThw4XDFQN2pUhiwmQDHua5cVAPnK3aQXsFahXMCZUiyy3WbxUv2pLTdWgQygPCVkWynyHJFwK63YSGAZhekNJCa6J12U2yqix7N9BLyoNM4q7VmUBMWhCaF6mU?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[
The Struggle Is Real: Trotro Diaries]]></title><description><![CDATA[Have you ever sat in public bus and the first thing that greets you is the stench from the bus conductors armpit? Welcome to trenches life. If there’s one thing I hate so much in my life, it’s public]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@nhaji01/the-struggle-is-real-trotro</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-176874/@nhaji01/the-struggle-is-real-trotro</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-176874]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[nhaji01]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2024 13:25:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/W5LtFUPm6g73GywJLc4qya717jY4hemJ4yGThw4XW6JNCxn3i7zd3hAQLyo94VkKX89koH5PEGRiPXZrzuGVE4jzTVdQft3qXLPRy2gTVr3G8BGwTXKUvq5GQa7sRhNA592x5yg4bdGhyyz6Wb8LKd2AZ1U8e?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item></channel></rss>