<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 24 May 2026 04:36:47 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/created/perfectionism/rss.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[I Had a Kid with a Tattoo-Artist Boyfriend! CALL IN SHOW]]></title><description><![CDATA[Philosopher Stefan Molyneux breaks down a 37-year-old teacher's perfectionism and self-worth ruins from past relationships, arming her with accountability for healthy love's raw power. 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It's a powerful social vices with huge negative effects. People]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-167922/@sammyhive/whats-prejudice-and-principles-that-can-combat-it-</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-167922/@sammyhive/whats-prejudice-and-principles-that-can-combat-it-</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-167922]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[sammyhive]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Apr 2024 22:05:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/54TLbcUcnRm4Bw8fmw3Y3ebiYW61dkW16qTycFmNHj8MRipAtECqvGipfPvZLEZm7HYJQzZTBqpftbRaKxJCvo6jSPNyRSJ4DLsLKa3Px9Ydyc9C44bh9WaMdWbc1XDb9U5mQGKYJ?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Perfectionism! My Greatest Virtue... My Greatest Flaw | Weekend-Engagement 193]]></title><description><![CDATA[I don't know if the same thing happens to anyone else, but yes, and I consider it sad... 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Many INFPs are Master Procrastinators, this video gives 5 tips ...]]></title><description><![CDATA[... to deal with that. Including other people, throwing away #perfectionism and so on... #psychology #inleo #hivelearners #aliveandthriving #stemgeeks]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-193084/@ahmadmangazap/dwa091x5vnbrfzt6k6w6w6</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-193084/@ahmadmangazap/dwa091x5vnbrfzt6k6w6w6</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-193084]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[ahmadmangazap]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 08 Dec 2023 12:32:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45eKwYSnZRGtLqL1RGvLjnrbuPQrQchGt3naz?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Chasing Perfection An Endless Quest ]]></title><description><![CDATA[HOW PERFECTIONISM RUINS LIFE , My Life. Everything has to be just right so that nobody could ever criticize me.     Perfectionism    Just a note, If you’ve been enjoying my]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-113523/@macchiata/breaking-free-good-bye-perfectionism</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-113523/@macchiata/breaking-free-good-bye-perfectionism</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-113523]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[macchiata]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Jul 2023 18:13:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/26uUsAjKTsXCDw7zixZR182JbFKvgzJ9YwsFpTVcRaGCmsqhA1unTgpqwjwbZ6qMYiUkgWyQP6jfArMJm3WpRmFXXQGY3HjVH8giPDS2XcNnzQ2dsvroHC3wiDF2snDFUD2P5kk4dkdmdBUw9rq5b6eGbCHoULQsuohVjt?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[An Offer I Can Refuse - retired rockstar/ songwriter once again tries to talk me into changing my book ]]></title><description><![CDATA[I totally get why some actors never watch the movies they play(ed) in. I am also sure there's filmmakers who never watch the movies they direct, or perhaps only once, after finishing them. This is how]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-168869/@vincentnijman/an-offer-i-can-refuse-retired-rockstar-songwriter-once-again-tries-to-talk-me-into-changing-my-book</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-168869/@vincentnijman/an-offer-i-can-refuse-retired-rockstar-songwriter-once-again-tries-to-talk-me-into-changing-my-book</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-168869]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[vincentnijman]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 13 May 2023 10:07:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/3RTd4iuWD6NUeJEn5AVrJUoyatFqBqfcCJi1N7UixR4g2KPKN7w8NpZLS51K47e56GtFs6Un5F4nfg6DZw1JXiQRJdd8t9ef7GRw7sVB7jbnRD8z6uZQa1qH7cNDVxbCKf8H64NQLAcsYj5YUGfBgz7f8iD1XrCYdJNC5Bypx6cEHC?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ex-rockstar/ songwriter offers to edit my book aka Continuing the  'Finishing' Story.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Three weeks after vinishing my book and less than a week after returning from a two week trip to The Netherlands, I received my mom's notes with some corrections. In all honesty, I am almost disappointed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-186308/@vincentnijman/ex-rockstar-songwriter-offers-to-edit-my-book-aka-continuing-the-finishing-story</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-186308/@vincentnijman/ex-rockstar-songwriter-offers-to-edit-my-book-aka-continuing-the-finishing-story</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-186308]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[vincentnijman]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 09 May 2023 16:21:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/3RTd4iuWD6NUeJEn5AVrJUoyatFqBqfcCJi1N7UixR4g2KPKN7w8NpZLS51K47e56GtFs6Un5F4nfgGkcNB84qpL5djNjixrmXSBcbRxGGoNDsvCxLaNmyjBr1cXkkDWNZLS88YYSteytZckJXa4Sr8vZ7zNjCAxyhf4pvS4w9QGhc?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item></channel></rss>